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Old 05-14-2015, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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OH Yeah, let me know when you find women like that!

(I kid, I kid, Ladies don't send me PM's telling me what a jerk I am!)
My current girlfriend uses me for money.
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Old 05-14-2015, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, Fairfax County
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My current girlfriend uses me for money.


Um, yeah. That is not uncommon.
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Old 05-14-2015, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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Ok, so you have a girlfriend and you are already looking before this relationship ends?

It seems that you met this one, so you realize it is possble to meet someone.

I am confused now.
It took years to meet the girlfriend I have now.
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Old 05-14-2015, 11:48 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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It took years to meet the girlfriend I have now.
Years to meet????
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Old 05-14-2015, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, Fairfax County
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Years to meet????
I think it must be very stressful for him to meet and speak with women. I think he needs to learn how to relax around women but I do not think he will ever be capable of doing that. Being tense and awkward will drive most women away. I am going out on a limb here and I say I think he has asked this question to women before who he did not know that well.
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Old 05-14-2015, 11:52 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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My current girlfriend wouldn't step foot inside the backyard building.
I don't blame her!

Seriously.
When that space was your quiet space, away from all distractions... fine. I get that. Perfectly acceptable.

But what girl, when she goes to her date's home, will be happy when she is NOT taken into the house? And how thrilled should she be to be taken to a windowless shed in the back yard instead?
Screams creepy to me....
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Old 05-14-2015, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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Years to meet????
On pof woman wouldn't give me a chance until I came accross my current woman in February 2014
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Old 05-14-2015, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Falls Church, Fairfax County
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On pof woman wouldn't give me a chance until I came accross my current woman in February 2014
I think that women will give you a chance but you have to relax and not try to hard or be too needy. I do not think you will understand what I am saying.
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Old 05-14-2015, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I think it must be very stressful for him to meet and speak with women. I think he needs to learn how to relax around women but I do not think he will ever be capable of doing that. Being tense and awkward will drive most women away. I am going out on a limb here and I say I think he has asked this question to women before who he did not know that well.
This makes me wonder what is the protocol for someone like the OP mentioning that he's on the spectrum upfront? It might turn some women away, but it might also give them context for an interaction that may seem awkward or clinical or unemotional.
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Old 05-14-2015, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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This makes me wonder what is the protocol for someone like the OP mentioning that he's on the spectrum upfront? It might turn some women away, but it might also give them context for an interaction that may seem awkward or clinical or unemotional.
I'm on the spectrum unfortunately.
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