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Old 02-19-2016, 05:02 PM
 
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My nephew was over last weekend for a visit, he is my sisters son, he is 14, and I Am 21 so yeah, you might be wondering what a small age-gap difference between an uncle and a nephew, but I was 7 when he was born and my sister is in her mid 40s, so she is much older than me by 20+ years. He came over and I kinda felt a bit suspicious when my Girlfriend was a bit too friendly with him, I just hope they weren't doing anything out of the norm when I wasn't home. My girlfriend is 20 so I'm pretty sure she knows what she may face if she gets into trouble. I did have a conversation with her this morning about what they were doing when I was out, she confessed and said nothing happened out of the ordinary and they were just watching a movie and she had him on her tablet playing games and that's it, but it didn't seem that was happening because I seen porn websites on her tablet??? it makes me wonder if she was allowing him to watch porn and not making him play games, I am starting to realize that this is going way too far and I may as-well break up with her, if she doesn't tell me the truth about whats happening behind closed doors then I may do it.

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Old 02-19-2016, 06:12 PM
 
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Is there some particular reason you think your gf would be inappropriate with a 14 year old? If that's the case then why are you dating her? Maybe you need to re-evaluate the relationship if that's how you feel about her.
 
Old 02-19-2016, 10:45 PM
 
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My nephew was over last weekend for a visit, he is my sisters son, he is 14, and I Am 21 so yeah, you might be wondering what a small age-gap difference between an uncle and a nephew, but I was 7 when he was born and my sister is in her mid 40s, so she is much older than me by 20+ years. He came over and I kinda felt a bit suspicious when my Girlfriend was a bit too friendly with him, I just hope they weren't doing anything out of the norm when I wasn't home. My girlfriend is 20 so I'm pretty sure she knows what she may face if she gets into trouble. I did have a conversation with her this morning about what they were doing when I was out, she confessed and said nothing happened out of the ordinary and they were just watching a movie and she had him on her tablet playing games and that's it, but it didn't seem that was happening because I seen porn websites on her tablet??? it makes me wonder if she was allowing him to watch porn and not making him play games, I am starting to realize that this is going way too far and I may as-well break up with her, if she doesn't tell me the truth about whats happening behind closed doors then I may do it.
So let's get this straight. You think your adult girlfriend is having sex with your 14 year old nephew based on no evidence whatsoever?

Is that right?
 
Old 02-20-2016, 09:56 AM
 
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lol, if nothing else I'm sure she made certain to take every opportunity to bend over in front of him and make suggestive comments, things of that sort. If she did nothing else she did these things--she was home alone with a source of attention (young horny male).
 
Old 02-20-2016, 11:27 AM
 
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Is there some particular reason you think your gf would be inappropriate with a 14 year old? If that's the case then why are you dating her? Maybe you need to re-evaluate the relationship if that's how you feel about her.
I agree, There is no evidence of any wrongdoing here. Has there been anything else that's raising suspicion here aside from the one situation you mentioned? Even something small?
 
Old 02-20-2016, 01:38 PM
 
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That poor kid


OP you need to talk to someone about your obsession with your nephew.
 
Old 02-20-2016, 02:30 PM
 
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That is weird either you or her not sure which.
 
Old 02-20-2016, 06:23 PM
 
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Paranoia will destroy ya.

You need to seek help.
 
Old 02-20-2016, 07:24 PM
 
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So if she tells you the "truth", you would consider staying in the relationship? The truth, as you have described the scenario, is going to be grizzly at best. You need to hit "reset", move on
 
Old 02-20-2016, 08:07 PM
 
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I don't know if I should give her another chance on this one, I was hoping that nothing would hanker, we had a breach of the covenant that we legislated for our relationship and I agreed to the contraventions that she made me abide by and observe, but now she is just taking advantage of me by hitting on my nephew.
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