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Originally Posted by huma281
Sounds like she's jealous of your success.
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She is. I make more money than she does--because unlike her, I didn't drink and screw my way through high school and end up knocked up at 18, married at 19, and divorced at 24 with two small kinds in tow. I haven't had half the man problems she's had--because unlike her, I didn't date separated man after separated man for years on end expecting them to finalize their divorces and then watch them all go back to their wives.
And as one person so astutely pointed out in a rep comment, she's a bitter ingrate, too.
You know why I deserved what was happening to me? Because my parents gave me a 10-speed bike for my 13th birthday and she didn't get one. Never mind that they gave me the 10-speed because I was riding around on her old Schwinn with the banana seat circa 1968 and that bike was the first major thing that wasn't a hand-me-down from one of my siblings. Everything up until that point--bed, bedroom furniture, toys, stereo, even a good bit of clothing--was once theirs. I got to go to Europe on one of those "five countries in 10 days" tours in high school. Never mind that the trip was paid for with inheritance from my grandfather, the same inheritance through which she received a cash equivalent
and his car. Apparently it was my turn to have problems because I "never had any" before. Never mind that she gladly accepted a brand-new car from the eldest (the malignant narcissist). Never mind that her whole life, everyone was there to buy her things, take her places, etc., because she "had the kids" and was such a sacrificing mother.
The best part of this? She's 58 years old. I'm 48. She is still carrying crap around from when I was 13 and she was 23.
Oh, and she asked me where I was when she was newly separated with her two kids in tow, as though at age 13, I should have somehow been there to help her in some way.
She's on husband #3. Looking at his Facebook page, my guess is he's in recovery from alcoholism. All I can say is that being married to her is going to test his sobriety.