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Old 09-13-2015, 07:05 PM
 
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This married woman texts me all day. She sends me like 60-70 messages a day. I asked her is she messages any other guy or woman as much as me and she said "no i don't :P". I asked if her husband knows about it and she said yes. I told my wife this and she does not believe that her husband knows about it and is ok with it.

The messages are really just about how are days are going and when will we meet up for lunch next or diner next time. Nothing flirty or anything.

But why does a married woman give me so much attention? she knows I am married. IS se just looking fo attention?
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:08 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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This married woman texts me all day. She sends me like 60-70 messages a day. I asked her is she messages any other guy or woman as much as me and she said "no i don't :P". I asked if her husband knows about it and she said yes. I told my wife this and she does not believe that her husband knows about it and is ok with it.

The messages are really just about how are days are going and when will we meet up for lunch next or diner next time. Nothing flirty or anything.

But why does a married woman give me so much attention? she knows I am married. IS se just looking fo attention?
Maybe.

Attention, a distraction, a thrill...

Doesn't matter. You're married. Stop flirting with her.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:09 PM
 
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Did you read the part were I said the messages are not flirty?
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Did you read the part were I said the messages are not flirty?
I read your other thread where you mentioned your feelings for her.

You know what you're doing. You need to stop.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:15 PM
 
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Did you read the part were I said the messages are not flirty?
Then whats the problem? Why don't you think she tells her husband if the messages are completely innocent?

If you don't want her to text you so much, stop responding. Would she still send you 60-70 messages if you ignored her all day? Or are you also sending her 60-70 messages back?
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Howard County, Maryland
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Unless she is asking you for step-by-step instructions on how to defuse the ticking time bomb in front of her, there is no reason for a married woman to be texting a married man 60-70 times a day. Given your avowed feeling for her (as posted on another thread), I would have to assume that you're enjoying the attention, if nothing else. But if you value your own marriage, you will knock it off. Tell her that you are uncomfortable texting her so often, then stop doing it.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:18 PM
 
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But if you value your own marriage, you will knock it off. Tell her that you are uncomfortable texting her so often, then stop doing it.
^ I agree.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Then whats the problem? Why don't you think she tells her husband if the messages are completely innocent?

If you don't want her to text you so much, stop responding. Would she still send you 60-70 messages if you ignored her all day? Or are you also sending her 60-70 messages back?
If my husband texted another woman 6 or 7 times per day I would be upset. If he texted another woman 60 or 70 times a day I would cut his balls off.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:21 PM
 
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I wouldn't want my own spouse texting me every 15 minutes, much less someone else's.

edit to add - just saw this and agree. Texting is not the problem here.

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I read your other thread where you mentioned your feelings for her.

You know what you're doing. You need to stop.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I wouldn't want my own spouse texting me every 15 minutes, much less someone else's.
LOL isn't THAT the truth???
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