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Old 09-23-2015, 12:59 PM
 
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He told me last week (Saturday) that it was a possibility that he was leaving because his janitorial company's contract is likely not going to be renewed with our employer. The odd thing is I am the only person he told. I asked him if he's told anyone else. He says he hasn't and didn't want me to tell anyone either. Today we talked more about him leaving and it was confirmed that the contract hasn't been renewed. I asked him, since it's official that next Wednesday will be his last day, if he has told my other co-workers and he said no, and he don't plan on telling them. I asked him "So you're just going to up and leave"? And he said "Yep".

By the way, this is the same guy I've had a major crush on back in July, but I've cooled off from that some, even though a little part of me still does like him. He talks to my other co-workers too here and there, but he has asked my last name recently too by the way, which hasn't asked anyone else here, and over the time I've been here he has confided a lot in me. My question is, why did he tell ME that he's leaving but not everyone else here at my job? The only other person who knows is my boss because she has to communicate with the janitorial company of course.
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Old 09-23-2015, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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My question is, why did he tell ME that he's leaving but not everyone else here at my job?
Probably because of this:

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...over the time I've been here he has confided a lot in me.
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Old 09-23-2015, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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If you still have a crush, give him your contact information.
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Old 09-23-2015, 06:58 PM
 
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If you still have a crush, give him your contact information.
We shall see, but it doesn't really answer what I originally asked.
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Old 09-23-2015, 08:48 PM
 
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We shall see, but it doesn't really answer what I originally asked.
He isn't talking about it, because the people you work with aren't his co-workers. He is a contracted employee of the janitorial firm.

If you like him, tell him you'd like to buy him a cup of coffee or lunch on his last day.
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Old 09-24-2015, 05:44 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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We shall see, but it doesn't really answer what I originally asked.

... because NO ONE here can answer a question about WHY he did something, since "we" are not him. Only HE can answer that.
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Old 09-24-2015, 06:22 AM
 
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He trusts you more than others at his workplace.
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Old 09-24-2015, 04:08 PM
 
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... because NO ONE here can answer a question about WHY he did something, since "we" are not him. Only HE can answer that.
This post needs to be a sticky.
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Old 09-24-2015, 04:18 PM
 
Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
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It doesn't matter why he has told you. The main thing here is you are gutted he's leaving, aren't you?
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Old 09-24-2015, 04:21 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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We shall see, but it doesn't really answer what I originally asked.
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... because NO ONE here can answer a question about WHY he did something, since "we" are not him. Only HE can answer that.
Lmfao!!!!
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