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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
What do you mean, "he's pretty open about it?"
Getting an erection is "natural," but slapping your girl cousin's butt is NOT.
You need to voice your concerns to both their parents. The arrangement may need to change. And if you see them wrestling, redirect them immediately.
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I agree. Their parents should know...and you should not have to shoulder this responsibility...it is too much, and too sensitive. Not talking to their parents would be something you'd regret if anything ever happened.
Your Dad's comment is inappropriate, sexist and worrisome.
As far as continuing to play with each other...I think they are beyond the age of physical playing...what you saw was pretty risky, and too risky to ignore imo....
And, this little girl is younger and more vulnerable...And...a person has to do what they can to prevent anything happening to either of them...so, since this 12 year old is prone to slapping this child's butt...inappropriate touching...my vote is No...they do not physically play like that at all.
It is a fine line...one doesn't want to over react...but you cannot un-ring that bell..you saw what you saw...and your gut instincts were right. This boy needs to understand that he cannot touch anyone that way...You, or his parents need to help him realize this for his own good. It is right of you to be concerned and trying to do the right thing.