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Old 05-21-2016, 12:27 PM
 
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What do you have to offer a husband? If you don't have much to you as a single person, you won't have much to you as a spouse.
I'm cute, smart, funny, compassionate, loyal, I can cook, clean, bake, I would be a good mom, I have good morals and go to church
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Old 05-21-2016, 12:48 PM
 
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But I felt decent. I felt better than I do now
Decent is not happy. A relationship is not a magic bullet to a perfect life.
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Old 05-21-2016, 01:33 PM
 
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Decent is not happy. A relationship is not a magic bullet to a perfect life.
All I know is I basically feel like trash everyday now. I didn't in my relationship
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Old 05-21-2016, 02:04 PM
 
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All I know is I basically feel like trash everyday now. I didn't in my relationship
You need to work with your therapist to figure out what YOU can do to change the fact that you feel like trash every day. You can't depend on someone else changing that for you.

A relationship is not the answer.
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Old 05-21-2016, 02:59 PM
 
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I'm cute, smart, funny, compassionate, loyal, I can cook, clean, bake, I would be a good mom, I have good morals and go to church
If all of this was true, you would not be in the desperate straights you now consider yourself to be in.
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:27 PM
 
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If all of this was true, you would not be in the desperate straights you now consider yourself to be in.
Why wouldn't I be? I know Im all those things but none of them got me a husband
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:29 PM
 
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I hope that in the wealth of replies that you received, someone told you that it's often a good idea to go dateless to a wedding, because you may meet someone. And, really, what kind of a wimp does that make you if you're too uptight to go somewhere alone?
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:47 PM
 
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Why wouldn't I be? I know Im all those things but none of them got me a husband
Time for some deep introspection. Something is keeping you from being the catch you believe yourself to be. And, it doesn't make sense that you think you have a lot to offer yet are willing to throw yourself with anybody who can be a sperm donor towards your real goal.
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Old 05-22-2016, 11:47 AM
 
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Wait. You are going to be a social worker? And you don't think anyone who is married with children can have problems?

Who exactly do you think the majority of your casework will consist of, single people who can't find a boyfriend?
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Old 05-22-2016, 11:57 AM
 
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Wait. You are going to be a social worker? And you don't think anyone who is married with children can have problems?

Who exactly do you think the majority of your casework will consist of, single people who can't find a boyfriend?
My logical side knows married people with kids can have issues, my illogical side just doesn't think they have a right to be upset because if you are married you have a good life and shouldn't complain compared to me who has a trash life.

I actually will likely be working more with children.
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