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Old 05-29-2016, 07:27 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Maybe the social anxiety is crippling. Does it suck sure but if his family knows he has anxiety then it is what it is
What? THE social anxiety?
The OP does not want his photo on Facebook, and you label him with a mental health problem.
Nice.

A social worker should know better, right?
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Old 05-29-2016, 08:49 PM
 
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What? THE social anxiety?
The OP does not want his photo on Facebook, and you label him with a mental health problem.
Nice.

A social worker should know better, right?
No I'm saying there is something behind that. Maybe a social anxiety issue, and I am a social worker that's why I can pick up in signs of a bigger issue instead of just criticize for not wanting to go to a boring wedding.
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Old 05-29-2016, 09:28 PM
 
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No I'm saying there is something behind that. Maybe a social anxiety issue, and I am a social worker that's why I can pick up in signs of a bigger issue instead of just criticize for not wanting to go to a boring wedding.
From a few sentences on the Internet you can infer a possible diagnosis on a stranger?

If so, print out all of your posts, pretend they're written by another person and read them. Then go back as the social worker you are and see what you can infer or pick up on about your posts
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Old 05-29-2016, 09:48 PM
 
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If he doesn't want to go then don't make him feel bad about it. Maybe the social anxiety is crippling. Does it suck sure but if his family knows he has anxiety then it is what it is
Dont worry bud they cant "make me" feel anything..... I HAVE MY OWN MIND

I am not on facedork and I dont want my picture there!!!!!!! (I do as much as I can to avoid that spying site)
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Old 05-29-2016, 09:52 PM
 
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From a few sentences on the Internet you can infer a possible diagnosis on a stranger?

If so, print out all of your posts, pretend they're written by another person and read them. Then go back as the social worker you are and see what you can infer or pick up on about your posts
Oh I already know what my issues are so no need for that.
Did someone on here not claim the same exact thing about me and you all totally ate that up so....
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Old 05-30-2016, 05:51 AM
 
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No I'm saying there is something behind that. Maybe a social anxiety issue, and I am a social worker that's why I can pick up in signs of a bigger issue instead of just criticize for not wanting to go to a boring wedding.
So you wont feel badly when no one wants to go to your boring wedding.
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Old 05-30-2016, 06:27 AM
 
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So you wont feel badly when no one wants to go to your boring wedding.
My wedding should never be boring but by the time I'm in a relationship I'll be happy and a better more supportive person which is ridiculous I know but I was happy no matterwhat in my relationship I just radiated happiness and everything now I'm mad and bitter and won't hang out with couples.
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Old 06-13-2016, 05:33 AM
 
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Thought I would update, the wedding was yesterday and I saw pics on FB, it was pretty but looked boring as all hell. No dj the reception was cramped looking and in the pics I didn't see any attractive guys that I would have tried to talk to or hang out with, just old people. So I spent most of my day sleeping which was way better I think
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Old 06-13-2016, 06:37 AM
 
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Thought I would update, the wedding was yesterday and I saw pics on FB, it was pretty but looked boring as all hell. No dj the reception was cramped looking and in the pics I didn't see any attractive guys that I would have tried to talk to or hang out with, just old people. So I spent most of my day sleeping which was way better I think
Have you ever thought that maybe the reason you're single is because of how you act, the snotty judgements you make, your inability to put anyone other than yourself first and most most important the fact you can't find any bit of genuine happiness for the "friends" in your life.
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Old 06-13-2016, 06:43 AM
 
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Have you ever thought that maybe the reason you're single is because of how you act, the snotty judgements you make, your inability to put anyone other than yourself first and most most important the fact you can't find any bit of genuine happiness for the "friends" in your life.
No because no one knows that but me, and one other friend of mine. In my day to day life I just fake it all day everyday. And I know way crappier people than me who are in relationships and married so it is what it is.
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