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Old 05-22-2016, 07:37 AM
 
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No indication that your comment turned her off. Let it go
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Old 05-22-2016, 07:37 AM
 
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If texting her "we're the same" really did creep her out, then... you're nowhere near "the same." She's an oversensitive nut who reads meaning into words that nobody else would read meaning into to.
I would think that would make them very much the same.
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Old 05-22-2016, 07:38 AM
 
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She got a boyfriend.
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Old 05-22-2016, 09:22 AM
 
Location: Chicago area
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How about this: maybe the text you are so stressed about didn't go through or came through hours later. I've had that happen as well.

I agree that you're over thinking things. Most of us realize that having something in common with someone does not necessarily mean you want to jump their bones.

Maybe you should get off that cell phone and have a real 3D friendship/relationship?
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Old 05-22-2016, 09:57 AM
 
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What are you, 16? Call her and ask her to meet for coffee
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Old 05-22-2016, 02:37 PM
 
Location: Berks County, PA
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I can see overthinking things being a real problem. I am guilty of that myself. Just take a step back.
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Old 05-22-2016, 03:40 PM
 
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You are 100% overthinking it. Especially the absence of "lol," which is one of the dumbest things anyone can text unless they are, in fact, actually laughing out loud.
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Old 05-22-2016, 08:02 PM
 
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Yes, you are seriously over thinking this.
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Old 05-22-2016, 08:35 PM
 
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Thanks guys-turns out it didn't put her off.
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Old 05-23-2016, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Long Beach, California
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You are way over thinking this. BTW, if you're not sure if she's interested I you or not...some women do prefer the direct approach--ask her out somewhere and let her know you enjoy her company. The worst thing, in my opinion, is when some guy looks waaaaay too much into what you say/do and interprets that as something it may/may not be.
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