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At first time, was your sister alone or with someone because in this post you are talking about your sister only. At first time did you know there was also someone else or...? Options are very various and interesting...
At the time she was staying with me for a few days. I came home from working and found her having sex with her boyfriend in my bed. I kicked her out and sent her back to our mothers house.
I am the 3rd child (,male) of 2 older sisters. The youngest of the two, in 1987 when I was stationed in the Army in Alaska, wanted to borrow $2400 for a down payment on her first home (a condo near our hometown in NJ).
I was willing to loan her the money and said I would, but there was no great timeline on when she needed it. Next thing I know, she had called my unit and spoke to my First Sergeant when I was in a training exercise near the barracks and she told him it was an emergency, which it wasn't. So I get back to the barracks and call, and she says she needed it right away. I sucked it up and sent it to her, trying to be a decent brother.
About a month or so later, I go home on leave and she gets POed when I ask her about repayment arrangements because according to her I don't need it and she wants to buy furniture. But, she did repay it right then but was mad although I nicely asked about repayment.
JUST YESTERDAY, I am at her place and our nephew is there, she asks me a question about whether i earned a certain badge in the Army, but she has a tendency to mumble and I did not hear her at first. So she gets very upset and starts yelling and with profanity, says I need to get my ears checked. (of course she has a fan running because she has high blood pressure because of her weight). The question about the badge came about because she saw it on the uniform of a soldier in a movie we were watching.
As she has had these tirades before, and she never takes responsibility, I am done with her. I will not go to any future gathering where she is at. The oldest sister is no princess either and I am mostly done with her also.
I have always tried to make efforts to be civil, but it goes nowhere.
Keep in mind, the one I loaned the down payment to several years ago has never been married, never had a boyfriend for any time and is overweight and just angry. We had a dysfunctional childhood, so we try to cut each other slack, but I have had enough.
Being born, I guess. I had it really, really good for several years there as the firstborn......getting all the attention and the Christmas presents from the grandparents and the aunts and uncles. And then BOOM! the competition started showing up.
It was my fault, after all. I asked for a puppy. I just didn't specify a canine puppy.
We were arguing over what television show to watch or something when we were in our early teens and she threw a VHS videotape at me, opening a small cut on my hand.
Other than that, my mind draws a blank...
My sister's great!
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