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Originally Posted by .sparrow.
Well, what was the first part of the conversation that prompted her to say you don't like women very much?
This has probably already been asked.
I didn't read the thread.
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I posted the earlier bit a couple of pages ago. Here's the whole thing in order :
We had this conversation as a result of something that she said to me. In other words she started the conversation. I was on a break and I happened to be sitting next to her and her friends. They were talking about their experiences with men and the things that various men have done or said to them. I was listening to the conversation but I wasn't particularly interested in joining.
I noticed her looking my way a few times while talking to her friends, and after a while it became clear that she was hoping that I'd engage. I smiled politely in acknowledgement but I wasn't interested in joining in. I was about to leave and get back to work when she said to one of her friends "I know it's a cliché, but seriously, where are all the good men?" while half looking in my direction, indicating that she really, really wanted me to engage. I got up to leave when she said "Hey, [my name], what do you think?"
And that's how I got involved in their conversation. I replied to her that if she doesn't know where all the good men are, it means that either she's not really looking for good men (hence why she never notices them) or it means that good men are not pursuing her for whatever reason. The only other theoretical possibility is that there really are very few or no good men, which of course would be ridiculous to assume. So it's got to be one of the other two possibilities.
Then she said something which looking back I guess I should have seen coming. She said "Awww, someone must have hurt you". I responded to this facetious comment by mentioning my ex wife and ex girlfriend and what they did, while at the same time clarifying that the actions of these two individuals pertains to them and them alone, no one else.
(Here's the last bit of the conversation) :
ME : (mentioning that my ex wife stole $50,000 worth of valuables from me and my ex girlfriend cheated on me several times)
HER : You don't like women very much, do you?
ME : Well, the truth is, I'm gay (obviously joking, in response to her insinuation)
(Pause)
Do you believe me?
HER : No
ME : Ok so we're back to me liking women then
HER : No I mean based on the things you've been saying
ME : Well there's lots of things I don't like
(Pause)
But women ain't one of them
HER : But what about what you said earlier?
ME : Do you like all men?
HER : No of course not
ME : So is it not ok for me to not like all women?
HER : Well I suppose so, but...[then her eyes glazed over, confused]
ME : Ok well get back to me when you've figured out the rest of that sentence