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Old 02-22-2017, 07:33 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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To welcome neighbors I have, on different occasions, taken over homemade cookies, homemade pumpkin pie (because it was days away from thanksgiving), homemade banana bread, and sometimes a bottle of wine. It's a very nice gesture and a great way to say "welcome to our neighborhood." It also gets things off on the right foot.

We had a lot of practice doing this as we were only the second family to move on to our street in a new neighborhood.
Love it! I do love to bake and I absolutely agree--it gets things off on the right foot. The majority of my block is older people (70's+). There are some young families around our age (late 40's- early 50's) but a lot of them keep to themselves. I'm very lucky to have several families to my immediate left and right that were very warm and welcoming. Seems like the nice thing to do


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Old 02-22-2017, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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When we moved in several of the neighbors brought cookies. I thought that was super sweet (no pun hahaha).
That really is sweet! I may do some baking this weekend


Thank you so much!
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:37 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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As someone who has never been welcomed I would have liked just a knock on the door and an introduction! I think anything you do would be appreciated.
I think so too. It really was nice to have them knock on our door and introduce themselves
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:39 AM
 
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I was going to suggest a plate of homemade cookies but I like this idea better.
Cookies always sound good
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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One of my neighbors brought us brownies, another brought cookies, and one brought a decorative candle. All were appreciated.
Agreed--just the gesture is appreciated


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Old 02-22-2017, 07:42 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Friends of mine got a bottle of wine from one of our local vineyards. It was a nice gesture but neither of them drink wine. They passed the bottle on to her sister who drinks wine.
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They may not drink alcohol. Give them a nice cake or pie from a good bakery. Who doesn't like cake and pie?


Yes, that's what I've been thinking...not sure if they drink alcohol. I was thinking sparkling cider and some sweet treats


Thank you both!
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:44 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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I'm going to think like a woman for a minute...

"So, you want to meet the new neighbors? Why? Is he hot or something? Why would you want to go over there. Oh, cause you were welcomed... Right"

Well, I just had a hot young gal move in across the street and I ain't going no where's near that house!

I have binoculars.


I'm kidding!!
They haven't moved in yet so I have no idea what they look like! lol


LOL@ binoculars
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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I like the idea of the pasta dinner basket also.

Any of the ideas with something sweet homemade or even a plant would be nice.

I know what I would appreciate especially if I was in a new neighborhood would be a list of places your like/recommend. Restaurants, contractors, stores, delivery etc.



Just making an effort to introduce yourself should be appreciated.
Yes, I think anything would be appreciated


A relative of theirs lives a few blocks away and the neighbor moving has a list of "guys" lol...he gave us that list too


Thank you so much!
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:47 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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I don't like the pasta basket. They will have to find the pots and bread knife.


I wouldn't go the very first day lol...first thing I unpacked was my kitchen
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:48 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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I don't like wine



Seriously though it is very hard to buy something for strangers. People are a PITA, lol. You will never make everyone happy at any one time.

It's the thought that counts.
I agree. My neighbor brought over a bottle of champagne. I don't think they thought about if we would like it...it was the gesture that counted...but we did enjoy that champagne
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