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Really? I don't think it's a big deal that they are swingers. To each their own.
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I don't think there's any salvaging this psuedo friendship - I'd cut things off (figuratively, not literally) and move on.
I would never leave my child in their care and while I wouldn't forbid the children from being friends at school, I'd find something else to do EVERY SINGLE TIME they wanted to "get the kids together."
We have married friends who are a little more open about their sexcapades than we would like to know but we have known them for over 17 years and know that they are not into swinging or anything like that. they just happened to be pretty open about their personal antics, we just laugh it off with them.
maybe your friends are the same, they just open about everything. just ask them straight up, whether they are into swinging or not or work the question into a conversation, you'll find out whether your hunch is correct or not.
BTW we are definitely NOT into swinging or anything like that either.
The comment about the toys makes it clear they are trying to figure out if you guys are open to a sexual thing with them - particularly because these are new acquaintances- its not like you are old friends joking together.
The comment about the toys makes it clear they are trying to figure out if you guys are open to a sexual thing with them - particularly because these are new acquaintances- its not like you are old friends joking together.
maybe they are using sexual innuendo's to further their friendship? again, I think it's best to ask them straight up whether they are swingers or not? saves all the hassle, IMO
If you are uncomfortable don't hang out with them. We've been at a friends house and a kid walked out with a vibrator they found in a drawer before. It happens and is an ongoing joke. I think most people that have been on the Internet have seen a video or gif about it. Its a funny joke, I certainly wouldn't read into it as swinging. They start giving you upside down pineapples and stuff that would be a bigger sign.
The kid thing, he might of been worried you get into a wreck. If I never saw the kid because mom picked them up and suddenly saw them sitting there I'd be curious. Wouldn't talk to the teacher or anything but wouldn't want to leave a kid sitting there because you got stuck somewhere. Especially when I could bring them back for you if I lived right next door and the kids play together all the time.
If you don't like the people, then don't hang around with them. Sounds like they are trying to be friendly, that doesn't mean there is anything behind it. I always keep my eye on anyone around my kids, that includes family. Even close family because statistically that is where the problems come from.
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