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I had a friend like that. We did not stay friends for very long. He also had a girlfriend, but was incredibly possessive of all his female friends and would go into a rage if any of us turned him down when he asked us if we wanted to hang out. Even if it was for something legitimate like we had to wait for someone to come fix a washing machine or for redelivery of a package that required someone to sign, he'd get furious we were picking that over him.
I'm assuming you are not driving them around, buying them drinks or supplying them with drugs when you all hang out together? Typically, someone who wants to hang out that much is in it for something other than your company.
No, he is not gay for me (he has been with this girl for 3 years and they plan to be married) and he is also a straight edge person. He really likes being friends with me, but he just wants to hang out with me too much. I do really like both of them and want our friendship to stay the same though.
No, he is not gay for me (he has been with this girl for 3 years and they plan to be married) and he is also a straight edge person. He really likes being friends with me, but he just wants to hang out with me too much. I do really like both of them and want our friendship to stay the same though.
OP:
You never know what could really be going on with him.
Just because he has a long-term girlfriend does not mean that he is not into you
Are the 2 of them engaged?
Trust your instincts.
let your friend know that you have changed, and hanging out all the time is not a thing you do anymore. Let him know you have matured, and have learned that the less you let people know, the better it is for you. everyone deserves their privacy, and suggest he gives his girlfriend more attention. how often do you think he will push his girl aside? If he is a good friend, he should understand.
all these questions, man are you a reporter or something?
No, he is not gay for me (he has been with this girl for 3 years and they plan to be married) and he is also a straight edge person. He really likes being friends with me, but he just wants to hang out with me too much. I do really like both of them and want our friendship to stay the same though.
Why doesn't this guy have a life? That's not normal, to revolve around another guy to that degree. Doesn't he have hobbies? Is his gf ok with them revolving around you? Doesn't she have hobbies or leisure time interests of her own? Or does he get bored easily, and uses you to avoid boredom? It almost sounds obsessive-compulsive on his part.
I had a friend like that. We did not stay friends for very long. He also had a girlfriend, but was incredibly possessive of all his female friends and would go into a rage if any of us turned him down when he asked us if we wanted to hang out. Even if it was for something legitimate like we had to wait for someone to come fix a washing machine or for redelivery of a package that required someone to sign, he'd get furious we were picking that over him.
yes had an x friend like that,,,he could not be alone.. always had to be with someone or a group..
and one day I bought him a small clock...and said...this is your time buddy...... your own clock,,,, stop messing with everyone elses....be possessive of your own time only..
he finally got the message and tried to brush it off..til he called and I told him...he needs to grow up
this is part of the fall out of always getting your own way... when parents coddle their kids,,,they don't get pushed back...
to the op...if you see possessiveness in guys ...push them back hard,,,its totally unacceptable.
some guys get all squirrely - particularly with women...and they need to back off and be told loudly to back off
It sounds like he doesn't want to be alone with his girlfriend.
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It almost sounds obsessive-compulsive on his part.
