My Friend might be throwing me away over girl. Need ADVICE. (talks, friendship)
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Well that is where you folks are misinformed. He does know because they check each other’s page everyday. He saw that I liked it. I did take my like back.
Liking a Facebook picture can land you in a lot of trouble. But that's why I hope that somehow he doesn't find this forum and see I'm writing about him. Any way that you can delete a thread?
No, following the instructions of a crazy person just because he orders you to can get you in a lot of trouble. Did you read about the Milgram Effect?
OP, if you knew it was wrong, why did you do it? Are you afraid this person can physically harm you? If so, why do you call him a "friend"? Why would you take his calls?
It also kind of worries me that you are a Lyft driver, and that strangers trust you alone in a car with them. You seem to have very poor judgement and impulse control.
I'm not a troll, I understand sometimes my posts are dramatic. I want to get that out of the way. So I'm going to give you a story as straight to the point and honest as I can. My friend is really into this girl. I've never met this girl. He talks about her all the time. All the time. I drive rideshare-Lyft part time at night time. And apparently this girl uses it all the time according to him. So he's wondering if I've ever picked him up.
He keeps on calling me while I have passengers about to get in the car. He keeps on asking me if I have seen her, which is really odd because there's millions of people in our area. He also posts these things on Facebook to try to impress her. He kept on asking me what I thought of the posts. And he told me to let him know right away if I see anything on the internet about her. I thought he said internet. Honestly. But now I think he meant if I find her outside getting a ride.
And so I go to her Facebook just to see if I find any information. I am just doing it because I thought that's what he wanted. I was busy at the time and so I was thinking about many things. And so I go to her page and I see a random pic of an animal and like it. I guess her page is public so it allows you to like.
The next day he calls me up and he thinks that I disrespected him and might be trying to get with her. He said either way, the most awkward thing you can do is to like someone's post that you don't know. He says that it might be best that we aren't friends anymore since I disrespected him.
The truth is I want nothing to do with the girl. I don't know her. I've never met her. I don't care about her. But he talks about her non stop. And now he's saying that I'm totally stabbing him in the back because I liked an animal post that she made. I did go back and unlike it. But he says that you never are supposed to like someone's page that you don't know....
So now we're not on good terms. I honestly wan't even thinking at the time and just hit the like and left her page. But because of this, he says the friendship might be over.
Some of you think it's very strange that I went to her profile. It's because he kept on asking me what I thought about his posts and what she would think... Then as I had to go, he told me to find out anything about her. Because we were talking bout FB, I thought that's what he wanted me to do, go look at her page and see if I find anything fishy or something, I don't know??? I wasn't even thinking about it.. So I didn't mean anything by hitting that like.
And now he's saying it's making him look bad because he's gonna have to explain why I did what I did. I didn't write anything, I didn't message her, I didn't friend request her, I simply hit like on an animal post. I have no idea why I hit like. It was a cute llama. I'm used to hitting like when I see something on instagram, that's all. I swear to god I wasn't trying to disrespect him. But now he's trying to make all these connections and is making all these accusations.
Lol op! I get what you are coming from. Your friend is a drama queen and probably very insecure. I bet you you are hotter than your so called friend too and it makes him feel threatened by you.
Well the good news (for your relationship) is his relationship won't last long with this girl because he's most likely driving her insane as well. He sounds incredibly insecure and needy.
And so I go to her Facebook just to see if I find any information.
So now we're not on good terms. But now he's trying to make all these connections and is making all these accusations.
Yeh, well...facebook (discracebook) will do that to you.
Stay off if you want a more peaceful life.
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