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Okay, lets get this straight. I'm old and maybe I don't know that much about facebook
If a friend of mine posts something, I click the like button. Then somebody who is not my friend likes the post and makes a comment. So is it improper, stupid, uncool if I like the nonfriend's comment?
Is there a set of rules to follow when using facebook?
I think your friend is overreacting. He's so obsessed with this girl. He doesn't think it's odd that he is asking you to spy on her.
Okay, lets get this straight. I'm old and maybe I don't know that much about facebook
If a friend of mine posts something, I click the like button. Then somebody who is not my friend likes the post and makes a comment. So is it improper, stupid, uncool if I like the nonfriend's comment?
Is there a set of rules to follow when using facebook?
I think your friend is overreacting. He's so obsessed with this girl. He doesn't think it's odd that he is asking you to spy on her.
I like posts all the time, friends or not.
People are ridiculous with their unwritten rules. Uptight drama qeueens.
I'm not a troll, I understand sometimes my posts are dramatic. I want to get that out of the way. So I'm going to give you a story as straight to the point and honest as I can. My friend is really into this girl. I've never met this girl. He talks about her all the time. All the time. I drive rideshare-Lyft part time at night time. And apparently this girl uses it all the time according to him. So he's wondering if I've ever picked him up.
He keeps on calling me while I have passengers about to get in the car. He keeps on asking me if I have seen her, which is really odd because there's millions of people in our area. He also posts these things on Facebook to try to impress her. He kept on asking me what I thought of the posts. And he told me to let him know right away if I see anything on the internet about her. I thought he said internet. Honestly. But now I think he meant if I find her outside getting a ride.
And so I go to her Facebook just to see if I find any information. I am just doing it because I thought that's what he wanted. I was busy at the time and so I was thinking about many things. And so I go to her page and I see a random pic of an animal and like it. I guess her page is public so it allows you to like.
The next day he calls me up and he thinks that I disrespected him and might be trying to get with her. He said either way, the most awkward thing you can do is to like someone's post that you don't know. He says that it might be best that we aren't friends anymore since I disrespected him.
The truth is I want nothing to do with the girl. I don't know her. I've never met her. I don't care about her. But he talks about her non stop. And now he's saying that I'm totally stabbing him in the back because I liked an animal post that she made. I did go back and unlike it. But he says that you never are supposed to like someone's page that you don't know....
So now we're not on good terms. I honestly wan't even thinking at the time and just hit the like and left her page. But because of this, he says the friendship might be over.
Some of you think it's very strange that I went to her profile. It's because he kept on asking me what I thought about his posts and what she would think... Then as I had to go, he told me to find out anything about her. Because we were talking bout FB, I thought that's what he wanted me to do, go look at her page and see if I find anything fishy or something, I don't know??? I wasn't even thinking about it.. So I didn't mean anything by hitting that like.
And now he's saying it's making him look bad because he's gonna have to explain why I did what I did. I didn't write anything, I didn't message her, I didn't friend request her, I simply hit like on an animal post. I have no idea why I hit like. It was a cute llama. I'm used to hitting like when I see something on instagram, that's all. I swear to god I wasn't trying to disrespect him. But now he's trying to make all these connections and is making all these accusations.
He is being unreasonable. Tell him a shortened version of what you told us, that you were trying to understand what but he was posting and didn't think anything and didn't know anything about liking a post being wrong. Tell him that's all it was and let him digest it. Either change the subject or walk away and let him decide what he wants to do and let the worries go. It is not you.
When a man loves a woman,
Can't keep his mind on nothin' else,
He'd change the world for the good thing he's found.
If she is bad, he can't see it,
She can do no wrong,
Turn his back on his best friend if he put her down.
Percy Faith .... " When a man loves a woman"
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