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Old 03-14-2018, 10:52 AM
 
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Your poor mom gave up every ounce of privacy she had to enjoy her new relationship and her empty nest, and here you come. It is very generous of her to let you move home in the first place.

At 26 I was married and working overseas.
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Old 03-14-2018, 11:07 AM
 
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Now due to financial difficulty I did move back in after she was in this "relationship" but still, shouldn't she see how I view it as her daughter and tone it way down? The guy she is with is nice and everything but it's not fun seeing this.
Look, I get that PDAs can be uncomfortable but you're in her space. You came back into her space. Pull your finances together and vacate yesterday.

No boyfriend of your own, eh?
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Old 03-14-2018, 11:53 AM
 
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Her house. Her rules. Her relationship = her business.
I wonder what the OP thinks when mom and the boyfriend are in the bedroom "getting their groove on".
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Old 03-14-2018, 11:58 AM
 
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Incidentally I did the math. The OP says she's 26, the mom 43.

Seems that mom had her at 17 years old, so she started out early. Just sayin'.
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Old 03-14-2018, 12:10 PM
 
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Essentially what it comes down to is this: No one cares what you think is gross.

The great thing about being an adult is, that if you do not like where you live, you can move.

Thirteen year age difference isn't really that much.
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Old 03-14-2018, 12:25 PM
 
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Thanks for the responses. Went to bed after posting, just now got back. I get that it's my mothers house and she can be with who she wants, but isn't it wrong to get them to tone things down? I feel embarrassed if I say go to the kitchen to get something and they're all over each other. And I swear, since she's been with him she has started acting more like a teenager. I came back from work and I kid you not, my mother and the guy she is with were running around the house playing lazer tag

And she gets all lovey dovey and the like.
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Old 03-14-2018, 12:37 PM
 
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Thanks for the responses. Went to bed after posting, just now got back. I get that it's my mothers house and she can be with who she wants, but isn't it wrong to get them to tone things down? I feel embarrassed if I say go to the kitchen to get something and they're all over each other. And I swear, since she's been with him she has started acting more like a teenager. I came back from work and I kid you not, my mother and the guy she is with were running around the house playing lazer tag

And she gets all lovey dovey and the like.

What is the matter with you seriously you are the one with the issue. Move out.

Ps. Never too old to play laser tag and live life authentically and fully. More power to your mum, stop being so judgemental and ageist
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Old 03-14-2018, 12:43 PM
 
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Thanks for the responses. Went to bed after posting, just now got back. I get that it's my mothers house and she can be with who she wants, but isn't it wrong to get them to tone things down? I feel embarrassed if I say go to the kitchen to get something and they're all over each other. And I swear, since she's been with him she has started acting more like a teenager. I came back from work and I kid you not, my mother and the guy she is with were running around the house playing lazer tag

And she gets all lovey dovey and the like.
And you feel that at 43, she should be celibate and serious?
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Old 03-14-2018, 12:46 PM
 
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Thanks for the responses. Went to bed after posting, just now got back. I get that it's my mothers house and she can be with who she wants, but isn't it wrong to get them to tone things down? I feel embarrassed if I say go to the kitchen to get something and they're all over each other. And I swear, since she's been with him she has started acting more like a teenager. I came back from work and I kid you not, my mother and the guy she is with were running around the house playing lazer tag

And she gets all lovey dovey and the like.
They don't have to tone anything down just to make you feel more comfortable. Get over yourself. She's enjoying life. Perhaps you should try it.

Didn't know there's an age limit for laser tag. I'm 43 ... I guess I'm not allowed to have fun anymore. Oh well.

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Old 03-14-2018, 12:51 PM
 
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Thanks for the responses. Went to bed after posting, just now got back. I get that it's my mothers house and she can be with who she wants, but isn't it wrong to get them to tone things down? I feel embarrassed if I say go to the kitchen to get something and they're all over each other. And I swear, since she's been with him she has started acting more like a teenager. I came back from work and I kid you not, my mother and the guy she is with were running around the house playing lazer tag

And she gets all lovey dovey and the like.
Do you have a boy friend?
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