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Originally Posted by PriscillaVanilla
For an evening at someone's home I think they are tacky as hell. I don't require my dinner guests to bring food.
I went to a potluck pool party one time and the "hostess" wanted everyone to bring two side dishes, their own beverages, and their own folding tables and chairs to sit in. She said "I'm providing the meat!" Tacky woman wanted to have a party but make all her guests pay for it and do the work.
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In my social circle, we have some people who always host. One couple always hosts new year's eve, one couple always hosts Halloween, one couple always hosts Octoberfest.
They clean their house and make it ready for company, and all the guests bring the food and beer/wine/other drinks.
It works. And it's such a very good time that everyone looks forward to. And kudos to the couples who are always so happy to host and so welcoming. Not everyone has a home that can accommodate a lot of people comfortably.
And everyone looks forward to seeing that largish grouping of people, if only once a year.
In other situations, where hosting is spread around, yes, the host prepares the food and drinks.
The times they are a'changin'.