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Old 11-10-2019, 09:23 AM
 
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Only my bff, from age 12 to now 57. I don’t see her as much because she lives in another state now. They used to come stay for a week when the kids were little, but now they’re in high school and in sports and other things and it’s very difficult for them to travel. Well my fiancé and I are spending all our money getting our house up to speed. We still talk on the phone, but even though a month could go by we never have any problems picking right back up. She still the friend who would help me bury the body if I needed her to! I was very close to her brother too, who remained in NJ but he died of cancer.
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Old 11-10-2019, 09:25 AM
 
Location: OHIO
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My two jr/high-high school best friends are still my best friends. We see each other fairly regularly considering we are all adults now
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Old 11-11-2019, 11:26 AM
 
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That's all i have on my fb are my girlfriends from junior high school, and high school.
And my male friends too, altho a couple are old boyfriends.

That would be from 1967 and on...
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Old 11-11-2019, 02:32 PM
 
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Yes, I'm 61 and keep in touch with many childhood/high school friends. Our reunions are always well attended, probably 150-200 people. We have a class Facebook group. Back in 94-95 we set up an email group for our class that reconnected many of us.

I have a group of 15-20 girlfriends that meet a few times a year (the locals) and we have gone on short trips a few times. It's just like we have never been apart, we're very lucky.

And my mom is 81. Her high school class has reunion weekends every year and about 30-35 attend still.
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Old 11-11-2019, 04:00 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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More no than yes. I have a few as Facebook friends, but we've got little in common now, and don't really talk. I don't really like them or hate them, they're just out there. Random connections that don't mean much. Even if a few were boyfriends, or FWB types back then. Our connection faded away to no real significance a long time ago. And I moved again and again, and landed quite far away from any of them. I've never been to a high school reunion, and I don't even know which school's reunion I'd attend if I were so inclined since I went to 4 different high schools growing up. I graduated in 1997.

It's like...the ones whose full names I could recall, I developed a smidge of curiosity to see how they were doing in life, so many years later, and maybe I found them online and did a little surface level social media snooping in the spirit of curiosity, but it really didn't go any further than that. Seems like we've all evolved in very different directions.
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Old 11-11-2019, 05:34 PM
 
Location: In the Pearl of the Purchase, Ky
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A classmate of mine got busy on facebook contacting everybody from our class and getting us all to "friend" each other. She also did this with students in other graduating class from our school and each class has their own page. I've messaged some good classmates I hadn't heard from in years. It was good to hear from them.
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Old 11-11-2019, 05:39 PM
 
Location: planet earth
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I graduated a LONG time ago, and still have a couple of H.S. "friends" (very, very casual "relationships" - more like acquaintances now). I have a bunch of H.S. FB friends - I enjoy those relationships.

Unfortunately, some of the people I was friends with were not very good "friends." "Popular" kids - at the 10th reunion, my best friend in H.S. sat on my husband's lap.

I JUST (like days ago) recalled a trauma that happened to me in H.S., that explains a lot about my psychology since then - but the nature of the trauma is so scandalous, that I cannot interact with any friends because I would want to tell them and it wouldn't be appropriate. So I have to basically hide that part of my life.
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Old 11-12-2019, 10:07 PM
 
Location: USA
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Yes, I have My Litterstar school Friend to High school and High school to College, as we have continued the study from childhood to Teenage. We can't live without each other and do you know who is this Friend its a girl, so Childhood to Teen Age and Teenage to Marriage. Yes, we have fallen in love at Teenage and now we are married.
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Old 11-14-2019, 09:32 PM
 
Location: East Bay, San Francisco Bay Area
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I still keep in touch with two friends from middle school. I am also friends with two former neighbors (we knew each other since we were 5 years old).
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Old 11-14-2019, 09:55 PM
 
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I'm only in touch with two people who fit that description - Dawn and Tracy are sisters, and their parents were friends with mine, so my siblings and I have pretty much grown up with them. We aren't able to get together as often as I would like to, but still keep in touch through Facebook.
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