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I've been sent links to specific pics/folders and have never snooped around, so maybe she hasn't either. If she DID see them, she probably feels like she invaded your privacy and won't ever mention them. Bottom line, as long as you don't care, no one can blackmail you.
As the post title states, I was sending an old friend, (actually the ex of one of my buddies) a link to a Flickr folder that had a large set of pictures of a visit I made visiting them years ago, and realized that she almost certainly saw another folder in my account where I kept some (old) nude pics. That folder was supposed to be private, but for some reason last time I added to/reorganized my pics I guess I didn't set the security right.
I am not 100% confident she saw them, but I really suspect she did, as she made a comment in her last email about another pic that was in another folder (not the nudes one, but not the ones of my visit) than the one I shared. But if she did check out other folders, she probably did see my nudes as well.
I don't think she would be offended by them, but am really worried that whole situation crossed a line. We've always been fun-flirty, so if she did see me nude I'm surprised she didn't say something, so there is hope that she didn't see them.
I don't know how to feel about this, should I apologize, just in case? Ignore it and carry on? Anybody ever had a similar situation?
Oh well!
Sometimes you get the bear. Sometimes the bear gets you!
Lol, you sound like me. I literally can't even 'sext' with the man I'm married to.
Last time I did, he was driving home & his truck broke down. Didn't have the tools he needed so he jumped on a bus to ride home & grab them & then I would drive him back to his truck.
He LEFT HIS PHONE ON THE BUS.
Another guy on the bus took it home with him. "Home' happened to be a half-way house for parolees. The husband happened to be the supervisor for a metal fab/machining/welding company that hired a lot of parolees.
He also has a really infamous reputation for not taking any crap from the parolees. As the phone & my pics made their rounds, some of the parolees recognized whose phone it was & basically said 'Dude, you are f*****!'.
I received an 'anonymous' phone call from the husband's phone & made arrangements to get it back. The person I retrieved it from was not the person who took the phone in the first place.
If I was given access I'd think I had access to all! How would I know I was supposed to "keep my eyes down"? OP should not blame her and neither should you!
If someone links me to one folder of their photos, I assume they want me to see ONE folder of their photos. If they wanted me to see others, they would send me links to others or say "I have other pictures you might like, too." No way I'd presume I was welcome to look through all of their pictures, and if I got nosy and did so, I wouldn't admit it.
I've been sent links to specific pics/folders and have never snooped around, so maybe she hasn't either. If she DID see them, she probably feels like she invaded your privacy and won't ever mention them. Bottom line, as long as you don't care, no one can blackmail you.
That's mostly where I am at.
But of course my first concern is not wanting it to get weird between us, that is if the 2 pics were seen. I value her friendship, as we've had a whole lot of good times, even though it was awhile ago.
But if it went that way, (which it wouldn't), and she tried to leverage the situation, I'd say, "go ahead, make me famous" (or infamous, ...... who knows, lol)
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