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Don't confront her, just give her the silent treatment and ignore her for the next couple of weeks. And then just leave, without as much as a "goodbye" to her. Most people hate that and it will do more to get under her skin than a confrontation would. If she asks you something, answer as monosyllabic as possible and then remove yourself from her company. Don't join her if you come across her in the apartment/house, just go straight to your room. And lock your room door so she can't snoop or take anymore of your stuff.
if you are with a person who talks a LOT about other people, you are GARANTEED that this person will talk about you too, promises or not. A sad lesson that most people learn.
Some of my friends said if I do say something just go easy on her. I am thinking about just saying I feel that you have wronged me in a lot of ways in this program. I am glad I don't have to deal with you anymore take care.
No. If you say something you should warn her to keep her lips closed because her friends told you everything she said about you and that one day someone will teach her a life lesson. If you're going to say something, make it count, not that she wronged you. I would have my video on the phone so it's recorded because she will lie to others so you can warn her you have video, just make sure she doesn't have access to your cell.
She will never learn even when she loses all of her friends. It will always be the other person's fault.
This is why I never wanted to share a place with the other sex. There's way too much drama, I don't need to hold someone's hand or deal with THEIR drama. I have seen so many "Friendships end in nasty fights or battles or (Even worse) one of them split and leave the other stiffed with the full rent.
Let this be a lesson....Then walk like a man and leave her behind....
This is why I never wanted to share a place with the other sex. There's way too much drama, I don't need to hold someone's hand or deal with THEIR drama. I have seen so many "Friendships end in nasty fights or battles or (Even worse) one of them split and leave the other stiffed with the full rent.
Let this be a lesson....Then walk like a man and leave her behind....
I know first time living with a female roomie too. Girls don't play by the same rules as men. For me your word is your honor. I get a bitter feeling just taking the high road and not saying anything. At the very least I want to give her a verbal jab like you are a pos person and I am glad I don't have to deal with you anymore.
I agree a passive-aggressive treatment is best - but very subtle until you are walking out the door.
Just be "fake friendly," smile, and keep to yourself. Don't engage with her AT ALL.
Don't be hostile either - just go about your business and ignore her completely without being really super obvious about it. Withdraw your attention from her, basically.
You best just keep your mouth shut. A dude, living with a girl, and you pizz her off you get in trouble!!
True I can't win. Feel like as a guy you just remain stoic and just take it. Girls act crazy try to get a rise out of you. They want you to break and the moment you do they win.
Silence can say more than any amount of words. You have nothing to gain by confronting her. Take the high road, which you'll never regret doing. Make a clean break. Look forward and keep looking forward.
Solution: Never talk about your sex life (except maybe to the person with whom you're having it). No one tells the truth about it, anyway.
Last edited by Steve McDonald; 11-28-2019 at 12:06 AM..
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