To mail or not to mail SD’s things to her…that is the question! (husband, person)

[hertfordshire]

Originally Posted by Sassybluesy

I don't know. To me, it's just simply saying "If you want this stuff, you know where it is. Come and get it." Why pay postage for SD's dramatic exit? I wouldn't.

Because it's better to pay postage than to literally invite SD to come to their home. Nothing good would come from that.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by hertfordshire

Because it's better to pay postage than to literally invite SD to come to their home. Nothing good would come from that.

I agree.

Ship it off, cut that tie, and be done with this messiness ... for now.

[Sassybluesy]

Originally Posted by hertfordshire

Because it's better to pay postage than to literally invite SD to come to their home. Nothing good would come from that.

Then say "we can meet in front of the police station."

[hertfordshire]

Originally Posted by Sassybluesy

Then say "we can meet in front of the police station."

I think meeting is just a bad idea. Postage will probably be less than $10. It's money well spent to be done with it.

[Sassybluesy]

Originally Posted by hertfordshire

I think meeting is just a bad idea. Postage will probably be less than $10. It's money well spent to be done with it.

They've already lost money over this SD, with the Disney vacation deal.


I wouldn't be inclined to do any favors to either of them.

[gus2]

Originally Posted by Sassybluesy

They've already lost money over this SD, with the Disney vacation deal.


I wouldn't be inclined to do any favors to either of them.

Not a bad idea... maybe if SD reimburses you for the expenses you incurred for Disney, you can send back the junk.

[tottsieanna]

I would just mail it, true that she could easily come and pick it up but this isn’t a hill to die on.

[hertfordshire]

Originally Posted by Sassybluesy

They've already lost money over this SD, with the Disney vacation deal.


I wouldn't be inclined to do any favors to either of them.

I didn't see any mention of losing money on Disney. Just that they had to cancel the flight and room.

It's not doing THEM a favor. It's doing the OP and her DH a favor by severing the relationship with the least amount of drama.

[raggedjim]

Originally Posted by Mapper71

...I sound like a cold-hearted ***** ...

Yes, yes you do.

Good luck, Rg

[Sassybluesy]

Originally Posted by hertfordshire

I didn't see any mention of losing money on Disney. Just that they had to cancel the flight and room.

It's not doing THEM a favor. It's doing the OP and her DH a favor by severing the relationship with the least amount of drama.

Of course...if that's how they feel about it.


I wouldn't be so inclined.