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Old 02-09-2020, 03:54 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Okay for example, i notice people have this creepy urge to turn something into politics. I would rather talk about my latest conquest at the bar,
And you call that "childlike"?! You sound lost and confused.
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Old 02-09-2020, 05:19 PM
 
Location: on the wind
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And you call that "childlike"?! You sound lost and confused.
IMHO (and some dictionaries would agree) there's a difference between "childlike" and "childish".

Childlike implies innocence, naivete, lack of sophistication or experience.

Childish implies thoughtlessness, crudity, being selfish, someone who should know how to behave but won't make the effort.
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Old 02-09-2020, 06:41 PM
 
Location: Honolulu
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Oh! Bingo.

I'm hanging around the wrong people.

And to answer the other posters, I'm 26. Never heard anyone call me goofy, but I'm okay with you thinking I am.
This is one of those threads where the OP feels a certain way about people and seems to wish others agree with their assessment. Of course there's no way to definitively measure whether OP's assumptions are true or not. I definitely don't feel the same as the OP, at least I don't think things are different right now than any other time I can remember. I also think OP may be interpreting information differently than many other people that causes them to feel this way. Nothing wrong with that but it may explain why they feel that way.
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Old 02-09-2020, 06:50 PM
 
Location: A Yankee in northeast TN
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People are too PC these days. Like i was hanging out with a friend, and he was talking about a woman he was dating. I asked him "you f*ck her?" He paused as if I said something offensive and said "yes, we slept together". Like what is that??
Has absolutely nothing to do with being too PC, do you even understand what being PC is? The fact that you don't understand why someone would find this offensive is telling. You might be 26 but your thinking is pretty juvenile, which is NOT the same thing as childlike.
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Old 02-09-2020, 07:48 PM
 
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Has absolutely nothing to do with being too PC, do you even understand what being PC is? The fact that you don't understand why someone would find this offensive is telling. You might be 26 but your thinking is pretty juvenile, which is NOT the same thing as childlike.
Sorry, I should have provided more context here. We were already talking about women, but apparently THAT was over the top.

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Old 02-09-2020, 09:21 PM
 
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Sorry, I should have provided more context here. We were already sh*t talking about women, but apparently THAT was over the top.
Sounds like a great time.
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Old 02-09-2020, 09:24 PM
 
Location: North Dakota
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Okay for example, i notice people have this creepy urge to turn something into politics. I would rather talk about my latest conquest at the bar, sports or traveling somewhere.

Sometimes, if I am stuck in traffic i will wave at the car next to me. No reason. I don't know them or anything. I'm just chill like that. Sometimes they wave back, sometimes they look at me like "what are you doing".

People are too PC these days. Like i was hanging out with a friend, and he was talking about a woman he was dating. I asked him "yoher?" He paused as if I said something offensive and said "yes, we slept together". Like what is that??

And music. Why do pop songs about couples breaking up top the charts? I love punk and heavy metal. That is upbeat stuff. But alas, that is going out of style.

Also, I think movies like sharknado are hilarious

Does any of this help?
I think people are offended too easily these days and am sick to death of things becoming political. However, I think talking about conquests and asking others about theirs is immature and intrusive.

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Old 02-10-2020, 07:57 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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Okay for example, i notice people have this creepy urge to turn something into politics. I would rather talk about my latest conquest at the bar, sports or traveling somewhere.

Sometimes, if I am stuck in traffic i will wave at the car next to me. No reason. I don't know them or anything. I'm just chill like that. Sometimes they wave back, sometimes they look at me like "what are you doing".

People are too PC these days. Like i was hanging out with a friend, and he was talking about a woman he was dating. I asked him "you f*ck her?" He paused as if I said something offensive and said "yes, we slept together". Like what is that??

And music. Why do pop songs about couples breaking up top the charts? I love punk and heavy metal. That is upbeat stuff. But alas, that is going out of style.

Also, I think movies like sharknado are hilarious

Does any of this help?
You sound immature so no, you're not an endangered species.
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Old 02-10-2020, 08:15 AM
 
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If you waved to me (and I saw you) I'd probably smile and wave back. I'm friendly like that.


If my group of friends got on a politics rant, I'd wish I was somewhere else. I once went to a high school alumni lunch (very informal) and everyone talked about AARP and retirement. (Sigh). BORING. But I sat there, ate my lunch, and listened to what others had to say. It was the polite thing to do.


I also like silly movies. My favorite silly movie is "Mars Attacks!" and "Monty Python and the Holy Grail". I could watch those movies once a week probably, and still laugh like I was seeing it for the first time. I LOVE to be silly. I LOVE belly laughs. But...life isn't always silliness and belly laughs. That's being a grown up I guess. (I'm not saying you're not a grown up OP.) Being light hearted in a serious world is a gift. But MAYBE you have a hard time knowing when it's appropriate to let loose, and when it's not. (Hard to tell from one post, and I'm not accusing.)
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Old 02-10-2020, 10:14 AM
 
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Sorry, I should have provided more context here. We were already talking about women, but apparently THAT was over the top.
And you can't see why it would be over the top? You were asking about his girlfriend, i.e. a loved one, not some other women in your & his social circles or work environment or whatever the context was.

OP, your difficulty understanding context and people's reactions may indicate that you're slightly on the autism spectrum. Or not. But that question tends to get raised on this forum, when an OP is puzzled about why people are reacting to him/her in ways that are unexpected to the OP.

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