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Originally Posted by anononcty
And 'that' is the difference. Those I can accept for who they are.
It's those that always seem to be working an angle or talking about their 'plans'. One person I know likes to talk about 'business' or their financial woes in hope or with the expectation that one will voluntarily offer up financial assistance. They've even lost friends trying to work their parents for money with a 'business proposition'.
I will say this person's peer group is constantly changing frequently around the time many events mentioned in the op happen to others. In other words the peers they hung out with in their youth moved on/grew up. They didn't. He's actually gets scared when he finds out myself or others ran into their old friends wonder what was said. They travel on a very crafted image. Many see through it but others don't.
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My ex brother in law was kind of like this. Out of 3 boys, he was the oldest, but also the least responsible. Had drug problems as long as I knew him. When he was in his 30's, he got busted for selling cocaine to an undercover agent. Never did any jail time, but his girlfriend/fiancé spent big money for a good lawyer.
He and girlfriend eventually get married (they'd been together since 9th grade.) Buy a house, and eventually, she gets pregnant, and they have a baby boy. One day, he leaves baby in his pumpkin seat, in front of the TV, while he goes to get some liquor. Wife comes home unexpectedly, baby is crying in pumpkin seat, dad no where to be found. She leaves him, they divorce.
Then he got a girlfriend about 15 years younger than him. Now think about it...what kind of girlfriend do you get, when you're a derelict? Not a prize. I can tell you that.
They eventually break up, one kid later. THEN he used to hang out in college bars, and brag about all the young girls there who would hit on him and hang out with him. Would always post pictures of himself with some buxom pretty bar maid or whatever. Well heck, if you're buying, SURE girls will hang around. He was Good Time Charlie.
Now...I don't know what he's up to. I know he goes back and forth from Illinois (where one of his brothers lives) to Florida, where my ex husband lives. I suppose he crashes with them.