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Old 02-14-2009, 01:12 PM
 
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I am mortified and think I am going to have to stay in my house. I recently started seeing someone and we have had couple of big fights. I didn't realize the volume or how much noise we were making the other night. Anyway, the neighbors came out to check on thing and he told them we'd recently started seeing each other and that I'd had a little bit too much wine.. Ugh! Has this ever happened to anyone before?
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:15 PM
 
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Yes. You don't need to stay in your house, you need to stop fighting. Once you get to that level where your neighbors are being disturbed, you need to examine what's going on in your relationship and fix it quick or bail.
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Lost in Montana *recalculating*...
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We've had spirited debates before even when our neighbors were present! We usually kiss and make up and everyone realizes we're a normal couple.

I wouldn't worry about it too much, but the if the shouting is absurd, I would really think you need to check your emotions a tad.
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:27 PM
 
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People in AA talk about this.....
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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Those nosey neighbors need the crap beat out of them.
Then maybe they will let you fight in peace.
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:37 PM
 
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Those nosey neighbors need the crap beat out of them.
Then maybe they will let you fight in peace.
Yes give them two reasons to get you evicted!

GREAT IDEA!
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:39 PM
 
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I am mortified and think I am going to have to stay in my house. I recently started seeing someone and we have had couple of big fights. I didn't realize the volume or how much noise we were making the other night. Anyway, the neighbors came out to check on thing and he told them we'd recently started seeing each other and that I'd had a little bit too much wine.. Ugh! Has this ever happened to anyone before?
sounds like the relationship isn't a healthy one. You just started seeing someone and you are fighting so loud your neighbors are coming out????

Do as your name says and move on........
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:41 PM
 
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i went away camping for the weekend with someone I was seeing and we were fighting the whole drive up there including while we were setting up the tent at this absolutely gorgeous wild wooded extremely-hard-to-get beach campsite. People from at least three different campsites, all very friendly and all laughing heartily, came over to comment on the apparent quality of our vacation time together.

It went from bad to worse between us, but by then we stopped speaking to each other altogether, so at least it was quiet for our neighbors at the campground! It really was funny, not only after the fact but during. I had a wonderful time anyway, the water, the woods, the beach, the hiking, it is still one of my favorite places to camp.
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:46 PM
 
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So what you are all saying is I don't have to be mortified too much? I'd like to go do something this afternoon (to pass the time until I'm stood up tonight), but don't even want to walk out to my car.
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Old 02-14-2009, 01:52 PM
 
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You guys are disturbing the peace with your fighting and you want to pass the time until you "get stood up tonight". Is it safe to say he's not a keeper?

You have to leave the house eventually.
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