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Some people, in any case. Is it fear, or do they think caller i.d. should be enough? I like messages. When a guy who likes me won't leave a message, sadly, it makes me think he is a wimp or sneaky and untrustworthy. Maybe I am reading too much into this. What do you think?
I like messages too haha. But I don't read that much into it. I only check messages if its from someone who I'm interested in otherwise they just pile up. For instance I hardly ever check messages from my mom bc its just "hey call me back" and I don't check messages from work either haha they can call someone who is working I'm not the only one who knows what to do hahaha. But if its a guy I'm seeing you bet I'm checking the message and giggling! LOL. Don't read too much into it though, maybe they don't check their messages so find it to be a waste of time bc they know you'll call back.
Because if you see my number on your missed calls, that should automatically tell you that I called you for a reason and to call me back. I shouldn't have to leave you a voice message.
Most of the time when you leave a message and the person calls you back. You have to say it all over again. Why do it twice?
Some people (like my S/O) are just HORRIBLE at leaving messages, lol! Like, not quite knowing how to leave a short message...instead...trying to leave the entire reason they called on your machine. Now, do you really want that 10 minute voice mail? That's why I tell mine S/O not to EVER leave a message on my voice mail, lol...and I rush him along when he's leaving someone else a message, so that THEY don't have to listen to his long messages!
Honestly I wouldn't worry much about it. I rarely leave messages myself. I just hate talking to machines. If I get the machine and I don't leave a message, I'll normally just try back later, unless the person calls me back first.
I do not call back if I do not get a message. If you are interested in talking to me you will call back... If not, well then...
I do this for everybody, friends, family and people I date, or just met. Just MHOP.
I find people don't often check messages. When I leave a voice mail with a "detailed message" - often, I'll get a phone call back asking what I wanted? ... had they listened to my message they would have known what I wanted and may not have needed to call me back! It drives me crazy.
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