Hi all,
I'm new to posting on this site, but I've been browsing for awhile. I'm from New York City, and currently living in Buffalo, but my girlfriend and I have been thinking of moving to North Carolina, in part because it's just too cold up here. I was hoping for some advice on what places to look at when we come to visit. I've been to Raleigh before and had a great time, but I've also heard a lot of good things about Asheville. So I'm focusing on those two, but if you have other suggestions, I would much appreciate them.
A little about us: We're a liberal, young (mid to upper 20s), interracial (black and white), lesbian couple. Depending on job availability, we'll probably be able to afford housing in the $300-$400K range. Our priorities look something like this (in roughly this order):
1. Non-discriminating environment: preferably the kind of town that has a decent ***** population and isn't largely segregated. Also, I'd rather not get too much - pardon my French - bonjour for being a New Yorker. I'm not the type to spout off on how much better New York is than anywhere else in the whole wide world, but I won't lie and say it doesn't sting when people say New York sucks.
2. Walkable/bikeable area: we both love walking around in parks, and I'm particularly fond of being able to walk from my home to a nearby cafe, restaurant, or bar
3. Good vegetarian food! - and good vegan food (the girlfriend is vegan)
4. Mild winters - it got down to 19 here in Buffalo yesterday, there is still snow on the ground, and my patience is starting to wear
5. Pro-artistic - we like going to art museums (I'm particularly big on modern art), theater performances, and more occasionally live music venues
6. Friendly people - politeness is nice, genuine warmth is nicer
7. Safety - This could be higher up, but I don't need to live in the kind of place where you can leave your doors unlocked, I just don't want to fear for my well-being when I'm walking down the street at night.
8. Local businesses - Chains are good for some things, but I like the uniqueness small businesses tend to bring to an environment
9. Shopping - Clothes, electronics, kitchen things, you name it!
10. Job availability - I realize this is a long shot, but an area without tons of dentists would be a plus. That's a hope for me, for my girlfriend, just jobs in general would be a plus
Wow, what a long list! Thanks for reading