I found it funny that NJ drivers would complain about NC drivers. I have been on the NJ Turnpike and never seen anything close to the antics experienced in NJ.
In Pinehurst / Southern Pines we have been slowing down building growth with a vengance. However, anyone who want to improve their property is welcomed. As far as the Yankee thing, most of the Yankees that came down since 1880 are now the natives and are OK with northerners.