Keep trying. I messaged you w/ some job search sites, etc.
Re the grumpiness....It is normal for the grumpiness when in recovery after a disaster. The hero phase, when everyone is helping each other, checking on everyone...cleaning up etc leaves and people live with the day to day clean-up, loss of home, personal items etc. They become more individualistic...Some become competitive for resources. Jealous of what others receive in the way of help...things like that.
There is a saying we had...A tornado is like a heart attack, and a flood is like cancer.
I remember the first Christmas here after our 97' flood. It hit people all over again when they realized they had lost their Christmas decorations, or their favorite turkey roaster...little things like that remind you over and over for years... it can be devastating. Our efforts here included all sorts of stress relief efforts, lots of volunteers were coordinated by an agency I worked for. It is unfathomable how much devastation can be caused by simply water.
Add to that the oil and all that has come with it to make traffic and everything more of a hassle. Many locals lost homes, but could not afford the rents because the oil jobs had boosted the rents so high. Kids couldn't afford an apartment to attend the University. Lives changed in so many ways.
Many folks lost their family homes, schools, neighbors they had know forever. There are so many things that go along with a disaster, it is hard to imagine unless you've lived through one.
I'm adding a link w/ pics of Minot in 2011 after the flood. There are plenty of videos etc online if you care to research. It helps put things into perspective.
Maybe when you get a chance to visit with a local person ask about how they fared during 2011 flood. People will tell you there stories. We are many years after the 97' flood here, but it took many years, I'd guess nearly 10, before that wasn't the first thing folks talked about.
minot flood 2011 - Yahoo! Image Search Results