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If your order is being taken at a food counter (or somewhere similar,) how do you greet your server: "Gimme a..." or "Hello, how are you today..." or "I want..." or "Hi. Could I please have..." Why do you say what you say? If you've never given it thought, do you think you should change your approach?
Many times I have to say: "sorry I don't understand, can you please have some one take my order who speaks English"?
I realize those who take our orders are just minimum wage clerks who are just there for a paycheck and hate their job but I usually treat them as they treat the customers. A smile will get a smile and a frown will get a frown back. If they don't care then I don't care. I understand it is hard to care when one is making scab wages, but if they don't want to smile then there are thousands of people with a smile wishing to have their job just the same.
If its at the bar, then I usually greet them with a "Hi, could I please get a _______?" And when I get it I thank them verbally.
At restaurants its usually quieter and there's more room for chit-chat so I usually greet them with a "hello, how are you today?" and such.
Even if I'm in a foul mood I try to smile and thank them properly and politely. They might remember me and I'd like if they remembered me in a good way so I don't find any nasty surprises in my next order.
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