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I agree. I cannot fathom being with a man who would punch a pregnant woman in the stomach, let alone sticking by him. There is no excuse for that ever--EVER. As long as she chooses that man over you or excuses that behavior, I would not allow her in my life. Take your stuff and don't turn to her for anything.
Your response to the posts show you are immature. You need anger management, this is how you will be with your bf and with your baby. Not good dear.
While I agree that the OP is immature and is not bringing this baby into a good situation, that does not excuse the mom's boy friend's behavior. There is no excuse for what he did.
While I agree that the OP is immature and is not bringing this baby into a good situation, that does not excuse the mom's boy friend's behavior. There is no excuse for what he did.
When the op was told to leave she should have left. It seems as if the op knew her stepfather had a temper and she tested him. Im not excusing his behavior b/c he was dead wrong but at the same time who would push someone who they know is violent????? If the man is a multiple felon he probably has no qualms being physically violent to anyone or anything.
When the op was told to leave she should have left. It seems as if the op knew her stepfather had a temper and she tested him. Im not excusing his behavior b/c he was dead wrong but at the same time who would push someone who they know is violent????? If the man is a multiple felon he probably has no qualms being physically violent to anyone or anything.
In other posts (unrelated to this) the OP talks about her mother being beaten by the stepfather. She had to have known he had a tendency towards violence, or at least a temper. What a mess.
He was absolutely wrong, no doubt about it, but getting in someone's face isn't smart either. And who gets in someone's face and throws chairs when they're expecting? That's just asinine behavior.
We all know there's 3 sides to every story: hers, his, and the truth.
Thats YOUR opinion. I dont think you should put ANYONE before your children EVER. I know I wont. When my daughter gets here and down the line I get married to someone else and he hits her I am 100% for sure not taking his side. Thats a fact.
Yup, still need some growing up to do. You insisted on getting your stuff at a time that they said no. But you went anyway. Your mom was right in siding with her husband, but not for hitting you. Who in hell do you think you are that you determine that your mom should put you in front of her husband? You're supposedly grown up, little girl. You're no longer #1 in your mom's life. Get used to it. Being pregnant does not make one a mature adult.
Get over yourself and accept that you were the first one in the wrong.
When mom said now was not the time to pick up your things, then you should have just arranged another time to pick it up.
You're 20, pregnant, not married, throwing chairs at windows, having hissy fits WHILE YOU ARE CARRYING A CHILD! Calm the eff down, get your life together. Quit worrying about your mama and her man, because you're being JUST as codependent as she is.
you have GOT to be kidding!!!! The man hit a pregnant woman! There is no excuse for that. ever.
Where did I say I support him hitting her?
She was told no, not now, but she came anyway and wonders why things got out of control.
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