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Simple really your son needs to come back and live with you . You and he need to go to counseling and I dont mean court appointed counseling , I mean outside the court system counseling . One especially aimed at teenagers . I would have never let my son go to someone who was abusive and what you describe your ex to be . I certainly would request that this GAL have nothing more to do with your family and request a change be made there . Of course now if this woman is friends with your ex outside the court system that most definately is a conflict of interest and highly inapropriate and it should be reported . One should never mix business and pleasure and that is a whole other matter . However get your son back his father is a bad place for him to be .
So your husband is not honest and abusive and you send your son to live with him? The child is now depressed and having a tough time and is very withdrawn. Hmmm, wonder why that could be?