When we decided to adopt, we thought we would just have one child. I know what a wonderful relationship I have with my mom and I wanted to experience the same thing. SO we requested a girl. Once our first was here, we decided to adopt a second. For this one, we said either gender was fine. We got another girl. My dream in life was always to have 2 girls
. However, if I were biologically having children, I would let nature take its course. One benefit of adoption, though, is that we could choose.