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Originally Posted by Caltovegas
Here's an article I ran across. Paperless Child Support Payments May Cost Poor Fathers Only Source Of Income
Basically it's saying the GOV. is going paperless and if men are behind in support payments they can go after it by attaching the bank account or debit card. From what I gather it can happen years after the kid is grown.
I understand the logic but something I didn't know ( I don't have any kids) is if the mother of a child goes on welfare the father of the child has to pay it back to the state. In a situation like this I would think each parent should be responsible for half of the running tab.
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Parents should talk to their children and a great majority of them do. As we've covered though, over and over again in these threads, children don't always LISTEN to their parents. A great majority of those teens (and older), have something called "perma-denial"...for instance, "I'm not that stupid", "I'm not dumb enough to have unprotected sex". Hey, when kids see teen after teen having sex and only hear about darn few that they're going to school with, getting pregnant, it holds about as much weight as when my generation was told that pot turned you into a crazed lunatic!
Sadly, a great many of the boys believe that every girl who says she's on birth control, IS on birth control. They also believe that 99% effective is 100% effective. Yes, you too could be that 1/100. A great deal of these girls/young women BELIEVE boys when they use that line, "I love you! I want to spend the rest of my life with you." What he's probably saying is, "I want to spend the next 30 min with you. We'll see what happens from there." Lust and sexual drive gets out of control. When it does, both of them should be responsible.
Hopefully, the crackdown on DBD/DBPs, will throw a bit more thought into the mix. I only wish they'd actually share that scare tactic in health classes!! "Oh.....by the way, should you choose NOT to remain abstinent, here are the possible outcomes. Not only might you end up with an STD, but you could end up having your bank account seized, your paychecks hacked to bits, be unable to obtain a driver's license if you don't pay, etc. Either way....you WILL be paying for that encounter for at LEAST 18 years!"
The trouble with today's teens? They've watched and heard about dead beat parents getting away with it their entire lives. Of course, they're not worried about it. Heck, Uncle Bob never paid child support and he's got a nice car, nice house, great job, etc. It's a new day.