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50 YO divorced attorney seeks 25-35 YO college educated woman to share the experience of having and raising a child without marriage. I will pay any outstanding and future student loan debt, tuition and books through graduate school (PhD, MBA, MD), child support payments to you regardless of custodial arrangements (even if child lives with me for months/years), and pay your visitation travel expenses as needed. I am also willing to fully assume the responsibility of caring and raising our child while you are engaged in other independent activities, such as completing undergraduate/graduate coursework, studying abroad, working out-of-state, dating, and any arrangements necessary to accommodate your future marital plans to someone else. You will also always have a room in my house to visit/live for as long as you need, and the extent of our relationship will be a friendship and parents to our child.
I am emotionally and financially stable, consider myself attractive and fit, highly educated, well traveled, christian (but not fanatical), clean background (no abuse/criminal history--I'm a prior prosecutor; security clearance; excellent credit, etc), and previously married to an attractive woman 20 years younger than me and my marriage ended essentially because I was ready to have children and she was not.
So I still want the experience of having and raising a son or daughter (without adoption, in vitro, surrogacy, etc) but have concluded that I don't have to be married to the mother of my child so long as we have a great supportive friendship, raise our child in a loving arrangement, and our son or daughter has educated and caring parents.
50 YO divorced attorney seeks 25-35 YO college educated woman to share the experience of having and raising a child without marriage. I will pay any outstanding and future student loan debt, tuition and books through graduate school (PhD, MBA, MD), child support payments to you regardless of custodial arrangements (even if child lives with me for months/years), and pay your visitation travel expenses as needed. I am also willing to fully assume the responsibility of caring and raising our child while you are engaged in other independent activities, such as completing undergraduate/graduate coursework, studying abroad, working out-of-state, dating, and any arrangements necessary to accommodate your future marital plans to someone else. You will also always have a room in my house to visit/live for as long as you need, and the extent of our relationship will be a friendship and parents to our child.
So you want to buy a woman to be your breeding sow.
That's attractive.
So you want to buy a woman to be your breeding sow.
That's attractive.
Yes, I get it there will be women who don't find this "attractive", but it's not about attraction, it's about having child with a women of child bearing age. Sorry if it offends you.
Is it really that much different from adopting upon birth, surrogacy, egg donation? And I'm sure some would say that it would involve the same responsibilities of step parents or divorced parents with children. Finally, we know there are unfortunate situations where children are raised without a dad, many struggling single moms who don't finish their education, and moms and dads who aren't the best individuals to be parents.
I welcome supportive comments and constructive thoughts, but please spare your judgment and cynicism since I have good intentions and motives. I may eventually get married again, but I think it's safe to say I've checked that experience off my bucket list.
Yes, I get it there will be women who don't find this "attractive", but it's not about attraction, it's about having child with a women of child bearing age. Sorry if it offends you.
Is it really that much different from adopting upon birth, surrogacy? And I'm sure some would say that it would involve the same responsibilities of step parents or divorced parents with children. Finally, we know there are unfortunate situations where children are raised without a dad, many struggling single moms who don't finish their education, and moms and dads who aren't the best individuals to be parents.
I welcome supportive comments and constructive thoughts, but please spare your judgment and cynicism since I have good intentions and motives. I may eventually get married again, but I think it's safe to say I've checked that experience off my bucket list.
Why don't you just adopt? Why bring yet another child into the world when you can give one that's already here a great life?
It sounds to me that you want to be a part time Dad and have her take care of it most of the time, then you can swoop in and have a bit of responsibility here and there, but mostly take care of the situation financially.
I don't see anything wrong with that... and considering you are 50, it must really suck to have not been a dad by now... you are missing out! Unfortunately, your kid is going to be with you until you are in your 70's... that's going to suck even more... sorry for your circumstance but I am sure you will find someone... I might add some other financial incentive like $10k plus all health-related expenses during pregnancy and 1 year after delivery...
Why don't you just adopt? Why bring yet another child into the world when you can give one that's already here a great life?
It sounds to me that you want to be a part time Dad and have her take care of it most of the time, then you can swoop in and have a bit of responsibility here and there, but mostly take care of the situation financially.
No, wrong, I'd gladly raise it and have 100% custody, sorry if that wasn't clear. But I'm also want mom to be part of raising the child and will assume any responsibilities she didn't want or could accommodate, i.e. time. Happy to be the full-time dad though.
As far as adoption, while I respect that option and may later consider, I really want to have a kid with grandma and grandpa's genes.
I might add some other financial incentive like $10k plus all health-related expenses during pregnancy and 1 year after delivery...
No problem, heck I'd cover her health insurance indefinitely if I could find a way to make her a family dependent without being married. Her health would be important since I'd want her to care for our child as long as possible.
50 YO divorced attorney seeks 25-35 YO college educated woman to share the experience of having and raising a child without marriage. I will pay any outstanding and future student loan debt, tuition and books through graduate school (PhD, MBA, MD), child support payments to you regardless of custodial arrangements (even if child lives with me for months/years), and pay your visitation travel expenses as needed. I am also willing to fully assume the responsibility of caring and raising our child while you are engaged in other independent activities, such as completing undergraduate/graduate coursework, studying abroad, working out-of-state, dating, and any arrangements necessary to accommodate your future marital plans to someone else. You will also always have a room in my house to visit/live for as long as you need, and the extent of our relationship will be a friendship and parents to our child.
I am emotionally and financially stable, consider myself attractive and fit, highly educated, well traveled, christian (but not fanatical), clean background (no abuse/criminal history--I'm a prior prosecutor; security clearance; excellent credit, etc), and previously married to an attractive woman 20 years younger than me and my marriage ended essentially because I was ready to have children and she was not.
So I still want the experience of having and raising a son or daughter (without adoption, in vitro, surrogacy, etc) but have concluded that I don't have to be married to the mother of my child so long as we have a great supportive friendship, raise our child in a loving arrangement, and our son or daughter has educated and caring parents.
What if you 2 actually fall in love? Will you consider marriage then?
So she have to have intercourse with you?
Does she has to have a certain look(blue eyes,red hair,thin)? Can she be overweight?
I'm assuming she shouldn't be a drug addict or prostitute?
Does she have to sign a contract?
How will she be sure you can guarantee these things?
What happens if something happens to you or you lose your job?
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