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Old 06-09-2012, 09:36 PM
 
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What do you say?

This is sort of a spin off from another thread about "empty praise".
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Old 06-09-2012, 09:49 PM
 
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What do you say?

This is sort of a spin off from another thread about "empty praise".
"You wrote your name very neatly, but lets be honest with ourselves you need to work a lot harder if you want to wow anyone kiddo."
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Old 06-09-2012, 10:02 PM
 
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"You wrote your name very neatly, but lets be honest with ourselves you need to work a lot harder if you want to wow anyone kiddo."
LMAO! I really laughed when I read this!

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Old 06-09-2012, 10:13 PM
 
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LMAO! I really laughed when I read this!

Well as normal our parents lied to us through their teeth about our skill, and as result my one brother and i have zero talent at art, and my other brother and 2 sisters have quite a bit .
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Old 06-09-2012, 10:17 PM
 
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If it isn't a stand out piece, I say "that's nice" or "that's good" or something similar. If it is a stand-out piece I will say something more specific that I like about it, like about the colors he chose, or the perspective. I often tell him he's very creative because he is, and I like that about him.
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Old 06-09-2012, 10:21 PM
 
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This may not be what people want to hear but when my daughter did good art we framed it. We have several pieces she's done, starting at a very young age, and now she has a degree in computer graphics and is making a living as a digital artist. Go figure. We aren't ones for empty praise, and she wasn't a great student (dyslexic and uninterested) but we/she played to her strengths
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Old 06-09-2012, 10:35 PM
 
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If I really like it a lot I might say, "wow, that is a really cool picture" and then ask a few questions about it. Or I might just say, "wow, look at that! A pink cat." "What's her name?" or something along those lines.
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Old 06-10-2012, 04:32 AM
 
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Well, my kids are still at the "they clearly drew something, but I am not sure who/ what it is" stage, so I usually say something like "oh that is nice, I like the colours you used. What is it?"
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Old 06-10-2012, 05:14 AM
 
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Well, my kids are still at the "they clearly drew something, but I am not sure who/ what it is" stage, so I usually say something like "oh that is nice, I like the colours you used. What is it?"
I used to ask my kids to tell me about their picture. I got some interesting answers with that one. When my oldest was in preschool he showed me a picture that just looked like a bunch of lines on a paper. When I asked him to tell me about his picture he showed me that it was a map of the upstairs of our house.
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Old 06-10-2012, 05:40 AM
 
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I usually say, "Good job buddy!" and if it's exceptionally good I'll say, "Wow, look at how well you drew this! I'm impressed!"
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