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Old 09-16-2012, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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Here's a quick Mom quiz. You have a critical meeting at work but your child wakes up with a temperature of 101 degrees. Do you:

(a) Stay home and figure your boss will just have to understand?

(b) Hire a last minute $25-an-hour emergency babysitter?

(c) Drop your child off at daycare during their crunch time so they won't notice and run to your car before your kid starts coughing?

'Sh*tty Mom': It's OK to Be a Less Than Perfect Parent, Says Laurie Kilmartin - ABC News
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Old 09-16-2012, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Denver 'burbs
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Let's change the scenario:

"Here's a quick Dad Quiz. You have a critical meeting at work but your child wakes up with a temperature of 101 degrees. Do you..."(etc etc).

Why does it seem that only moms are expected to be responsible for sick children (we're assuming a two parent household where both parents work outside the home)? When my kids were little and we both worked full time, my husband and I consulted each other regarding our schedule and made a plan for the day based on that. Often we tag-teamed.
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Old 09-16-2012, 06:10 PM
 
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"Here is some 7-Up, crackers, and the remote . I will call you later.".

Call me cold. But if they are a bit too sick for school, but not on their death bed, I am going to work.
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Old 09-16-2012, 07:07 PM
 
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"Here is some 7-Up, crackers, and the remote . I will call you later.".

Call me cold. But if they are a bit too sick for school, but not on their death bed, I am going to work.
Yup...I remember those days when my mom did that. No one suffered or died.
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Old 09-16-2012, 07:07 PM
 
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Let's change the scenario:

"Here's a quick Dad Quiz. You have a critical meeting at work but your child wakes up with a temperature of 101 degrees. Do you..."(etc etc).

Why does it seem that only moms are expected to be responsible for sick children (we're assuming a two parent household where both parents work outside the home)? When my kids were little and we both worked full time, my husband and I consulted each other regarding our schedule and made a plan for the day based on that. Often we tag-teamed.
yep. this. We have done this many times.

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"Here is some 7-Up, crackers, and the remote . I will call you later.".

Call me cold. But if they are a bit too sick for school, but not on their death bed, I am going to work.
ya but how old are they?
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Old 09-16-2012, 07:11 PM
 
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ya but how old are they?
Agree....age has a lot to do with it. I worked full time until my daughter was in third grade. At that point, one of us would stay home with her. Probably, if I'd have continued to work FT, at some point shortly thereafter, we'd have let her stay home alone depending on the situation.
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Old 09-16-2012, 07:23 PM
 
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I was lucky enough to have my Grandmother live with us, until my youngest was eight. At age 90, she could not do much, but she was fine with taking care of sick kids. At least she was there. And the dog was also a great nurse, the cat too.

Another reason for multi-generational living.
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Old 09-16-2012, 07:37 PM
 
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Here's a quick Mom quiz. You have a critical meeting at work but your child wakes up with a temperature of 101 degrees. Do you:

(a) Stay home and figure your boss will just have to understand?

(b) Hire a last minute $25-an-hour emergency babysitter?

(c) Drop your child off at daycare during their crunch time so they won't notice and run to your car before your kid starts coughing?

'Sh*tty Mom': It's OK to Be a Less Than Perfect Parent, Says Laurie Kilmartin - ABC News
If we didn't think the little guy was that sick, C . .

otherwise A (at least one of us).

This is definitely tough, and 9/10 its the freaking daycare that did it to us anyway.
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Old 09-16-2012, 07:38 PM
 
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I was lucky enough to have my Grandmother live with us, until my youngest was eight. At age 90, she could not do much, but she was fine with taking care of sick kids. At least she was there. And the dog was also a great nurse, the cat too.

Another reason for multi-generational living.
another?

There is first one?


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Old 09-17-2012, 05:02 AM
 
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What the 2nd poster said. Dads are capable of caring for children too.

Leaving a kid home alone sick just depends on:
1) Age and maturity of kid
2) Degree of sickness
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