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Old 10-03-2012, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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My daughter is taking her first overnight field trip with her 5th grade class in November. They have been instructed to bring a change of clothes, PJs, sheets and pillow case, personal items. It also said showers were optional. I'm wondering how many 5th graders are going to shower in front of their peers? i have a feeling most will decline. Also would it be terrible to suggest she just sleep in her clothes and change into fresh clothes the next day to lessen her load? I remember sleeping in my clothes at times like this many years ago.

any other hints about this first adventure? Should I let her leave her retainer here at home or let her take the case. She usually is pretty responsible.
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Old 10-03-2012, 01:17 PM
 
Location: MMU->ABE->ATL->ASH
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1. Leave the retainer @ home, 1 day of not using it won't matter. (and you wont have to buy a new one when its lost/broken). She will spend more days with out it waiting for the replement then she would miss from the overnight.

Don't have a girl, but my son @ 5th grade changes with his friends and did sleep over and they sleep in there boxers & t's.

Depending on how the bathroom is layed out (im assuming this is some sort of cabin). Most of the girls wont shower. About 1/2 the boys will. (The varible is how far any of them are into puberty.) Boys want to show that they are off. I'm guessing the shower will be 2x2 stalls with a curtin, most camp showers are setup that way


Send change of cloths, PJ's Etc. She will do fine.... Let her figure it out.....


Use to work in 4th-12th grade sleep/away camp..

For camp they showered (Councler made sure they did). For School / Church groups some did some didn't.

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Old 10-03-2012, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Geneva, IL
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1) Don't overthink it.

2) Let her decide what she'll feel comfortable sleeping in.

3) Depending on the activities they may need a shower, don't freak her out about it. Let her go with the flow.

4) Leave the retainer.

5) She'll have a blast!
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Old 10-03-2012, 02:16 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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Send PJ's, especially if it's going to be cold. Also send tiny bottles of shampoo and conditioner, in case all the other girls are showering.
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Old 10-03-2012, 05:51 PM
 
Location: Northern California
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Leave the retainer at home. One night won't matter. Send PJs and a little bottle of shampoo and soap. That way she has the option of showering if she wants to but tell her if she doesn't feel like it not to worry.
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Old 10-03-2012, 06:29 PM
 
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My daughter is taking her first overnight field trip with her 5th grade class in November. They have been instructed to bring a change of clothes, PJs, sheets and pillow case, personal items. It also said showers were optional. I'm wondering how many 5th graders are going to shower in front of their peers? i have a feeling most will decline. Also would it be terrible to suggest she just sleep in her clothes and change into fresh clothes the next day to lessen her load? I remember sleeping in my clothes at times like this many years ago.

any other hints about this first adventure? Should I let her leave her retainer here at home or let her take the case. She usually is pretty responsible.
Leave the retainer home.
Let her decide if she wants to take a shower.
She's going to have fun.
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Old 10-03-2012, 06:41 PM
 
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She can bring her bathing suit to shower in if she wants to.

Other than that, bring a game (like Uno) to share, a book to read, a favorite snack, change and a flashlight. Those things always seem to come in handy.
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Old 10-03-2012, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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thanks all for some good ideas. she has some Mongolian birthmarks on her backside which nobody other than family have seen so she is a bit apprehensive about this trip. To most uninformed people they look like bruises. I'm thinking she will probably forego the shower but I will let her decide.
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Old 10-03-2012, 09:28 PM
 
Location: Geneva, IL
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Over 60% of children have Mongolian Spots, so she won't be alone.
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Old 10-03-2012, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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zim- they seem to occur only 5% or less in full caucasian children but are very prevalent in many other races. There is only 1 other Asian girl in her class and I have been in uncomfortable circumstances with ignorant people regarding people thinking my daughter was bruised. A nursery worker in our former church actually spoke to the pastor about our newly adopted child's "horrible bruises" on her backside. And when I tried to educate them both i was accused of trying to hide something terrible. So my abundance of caution is well founded.

http://www.parenting.com/article/ask...ongolian-spots
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