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David, lock your bedroom door. It takes 10 seconds to put on underwear and unlock the door if he cries.
That's terrible. I would never do such thing in front of my son. His mother would go mad and rightfully so. I wouldn't want him watching her with another guy as well.
I can't believe this thread is real. What kind of father introduces his 3 year old to various women he's "casually seeing?" let alone has them staying over with him? I sincerely hope this is a troll thread. If not I feel very sorry for this poor baby.
Where did you read I introduced him to various women? You should read more carefully.
Well he should have a bed time. AT this age it should be about 8 or 8:30pm. If you have someone over this is your time to relax but lock the door.
Even in married couples mom and dad do it after the kids went to bed.
If you dont want to introduce your lady friends to him then you wont have this problem.
I feel played. It definitely is that guy. All the basics are exactly the same: super socially-aware 3 year old son of whom the poster recently got weekend custody, unrealistic sexual situations (hot housekeeper vs three women happy to be on rotation with this guy), strange syntax, hesitance of locking doors...
Man. I guess I really wanted to believe that, for once, there was someone who legitimately needed advice with a ridiculous problem.
Anyway, OP, there was plenty of great advice in this thread. You turned down all of it because you don't want to change your habits. You don't want to lock doors, you don't want to get your son on a normal sleeping schedule, and you don't want to have less sex. There's no more advice we can give you because, fake or not, you're clearly not interested in it.
How many fathers do you know who start out talking about their "needs" and not, "I've got this great son who means the world to me.... " Once someone says, "I like bringing them home and......" it's the giant flashing red light. Thirty years ago these guys wrote letters to Playboy.
Is there a City-Data Dunce cap I have to wear for the rest of the night?
No dunce cap for you!
It's not a matter of being dumb. It's just inexperience with flashing red lights. You'll learn to spot them from a distance.
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