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Old 01-29-2014, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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Where to people get such sick ideas? not once, not twice but three times that they admit to. And they have 3 sons. What other unspeakable things have they done to their children?

Lenharts lock 3-year-old son in car trunk to cure fear of dark
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Old 01-29-2014, 12:27 PM
 
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I really like the last lines of the article as below

"All three children remain in the custody of their parents. The Lenharts have a license to drive their car. Perhaps what they really need is a license for parenting."
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Old 01-29-2014, 01:22 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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Anybody who has been through a home study for adoption will tell you every parent should be so similarly examined. These people are nuts.
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Old 01-30-2014, 02:34 AM
 
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How cruel!
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Old 01-30-2014, 09:43 AM
 
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I wonder if that is the guy who was asking how to "force" his "fear of flying" wife to get on a plane?
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Old 01-30-2014, 09:37 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Wow that is just sad.
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Old 02-06-2014, 05:39 AM
 
Location: Native of Any Beach/FL
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arrest these folks what are they thinking??
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Old 02-07-2014, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
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Where to people get such sick ideas? not once, not twice but three times that they admit to. And they have 3 sons. What other unspeakable things have they done to their children?

Lenharts lock 3-year-old son in car trunk to cure fear of dark
Perhaps the parents ought to spend some time locked in the trunk of their car. It might cure them of their stupidity!
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Old 02-10-2014, 11:00 AM
 
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Good grief. I had a friend who was locked in a dark closet as punishment when she was a child and it scarred her for life. She can't even get on an elevator now because she's so frightened of small spaces she can't escape at will. Why can't parents think of the long-term consequences acts like this have on impressionable minds?
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Old 02-10-2014, 11:28 AM
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Location: Dallas, TX
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Where to people get such sick ideas? not once, not twice but three times that they admit to. And they have 3 sons. What other unspeakable things have they done to their children?

Lenharts lock 3-year-old son in car trunk to cure fear of dark
It's simply the logical consequence of popular myth that harsh adversity is good for you because it toughens you up, at least if that assumption is true to the core. If one seriously believes this, then it's not much of a creative leap to transfer that lesson to other matters - such as the incident described above.

OTOH, if you don't agree this is an effective way of curing a three-year-old of his or her fear of the dark, then at the very least, you have to admit that the notion that harsh adversity toughens you up has its limits. Personally I think the old saw "harsh adversity toughens you up" has no more credibility than a typical bumper sticker slogan, but that's another topic.
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