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So basically, if the son stated that he wanted his three shack-up honeys to be able to sleep in the same room under his parents roof then the mom should give into his desires because otherwise it would be disrespectful to his freedom/choices as an adult? So the son is justified in holding the mom hostage to whatever situation he wants to bring to her doorstep? Nope, I am glad that this women stood firm.
No, his mother does not have to accept, approve of, or jump for joy over any relationship her son has, but she does not have the right to demand that he sleep at her house, visit for her desired amount of time, or even that he visit at all.
She is the one who came here complaining that she does not get to see her son enough and asking for solutions. He is respecting her wishes by sleeping elsewhere and driving 3 hours round trip to visit her. She is the one that is not happy with that and wants more.
I don't need examples...this is a perfectly good one right here. If you don't agree with my opinion..then fine, you are entitled to yours as I am to mine......and mine is he's being passive aggressive.
And I didn't plagiarize anything...I provided a definition.
You can provide any definition you want, unfortunately your definition does not fit the situation.
No, they are acting like adults and choosing the option better for them. That does not make them brats.
They may be choosing the option they like the best but it certainly is not the best option for them or anybody else. Choosing fornication over righteousness is NEVER better for those that are doing it. It will have consequences.
As has been pointed out several times, the son wants to literally sleep in the same bed with his GF. Most here agree that they probably wouldn't have sex in the parent's house anyway.
I have a feeling this is more about mom's complete and utter lack of approval for his life choices and less about where they sleep for 2 nights. I bet mom makes sure he knows how much she disapproves, not just in her own house, but in their own, too. He probably just wants to be respected as an adult.
Again they are being selfish. I would never expect someone to sacrifice their morals or beliefs just to accommodate me.
So its okay for the son to sacrifice, but not okay for the mom to sacrifice? Mom wants the son to stay, so IMO she should be the one to make the sacrifices
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