Father's rights (brother, crying)

[hawaiian by heart]

Taken from them treated better. Thats my point all this best interests etc etc is bs.

[hawaiian by heart]

Originally Posted by DewDropInn

Helpful hint: You might want to stop complaining about sexist statements.

Oh brother, we are talking about serious issues and your being p.c.

[Zimbochick]

Originally Posted by hawaiian by heart

Oh brother, we are talking about serious issues and your being p.c.

People truly intent on having a meaningful discussion tend to omit labels that are pejorative or demeaning. And it's also a serious issue.

[hawaiian by heart]

Originally Posted by Zimbochick

People truly intent on having a meaningful discussion tend to omit labels that are pejorative or demeaning. And it's also a serious issue.

I say hon, sweetheart like i do brah or bruddah. Its a culture thing. Now i could of said wahine? Would that have made you feel better?

Sorry to offend, my intent was a respectful one and to put at ease vs a confrontational one.

[Zimbochick]

Originally Posted by hawaiian by heart

I say hon, sweetheart like i do brah or bruddah. Its a culture thing. Now i could of said wahine? Would that have made you feel better?

Sorry to offend, my intent was a respectful one and to put at ease vs a confrontational one.

Umm, no. Your post was confrontational and demeaning. At least own it.

[DewDropInn]

Originally Posted by hawaiian by heart

I say hon, sweetheart like i do brah or bruddah. Its a culture thing. Now i could of said wahine? Would that have made you feel better?

Sorry to offend, my intent was a respectful one and to put at ease vs a confrontational one.

Brah you not da kine when you try and stink talk da mainland ladies den say, "jus me". You no wan da ladies to think bad? Don talk dat way and give respect.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by DewDropInn

Brah you not da kine when you try and stink talk da mainland ladies den say, "jus me". You no wan da ladies to think bad? Don talk dat way.

That made me snort.

[lkb0714]

Originally Posted by hawaiian by heart

I say hon, sweetheart like i do brah or bruddah. Its a culture thing. Now i could of said wahine? Would that have made you feel better?

Sorry to offend, my intent was a respectful one and to put at ease vs a confrontational one.

As someone who is married to a Hawaiian man, and lived in Haleiwa for many years, and whose in laws live there still, I can tell you calling us "sweetheart" is NOT a cultural thing like "brah". It isn't Hawaiian or pidgin and it is not appropriate to pretend it is Hawaiian culture.

For the last time, stop making things up, lolo.

[lkb0714]

Originally Posted by DewDropInn

Brah you not da kine when you try and stink talk da mainland ladies den say, "jus me". You no wan da ladies to think bad? Don talk dat way and give respect.

Lol....da kine a word no haole like me will ever really understand...almost makes me miss Hawaii.....

[hawaiian by heart]

Originally Posted by DewDropInn

Brah you not da kine when you try and stink talk da mainland ladies den say, "jus me". You no wan da ladies to think bad? Don talk dat way and give respect.

Ima pono sistah. I no stink talk. no kolohe eh sistah. Put da broom away k? `aka`aka. I Uhane Aloha kden? Mahalo maika'i kaikua'ana or kaikaina?