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Not at 46 there ain't. More like women looking for
second chances in life,or women who couldn't find
a man for them if it was just them and one other man
left on earth.
At 46 you shouldn't expect to find a woman who has the looks, outlook and inexperience of a 20 year old.
Yet, that is the "idealized" woman your older man wants. Older
women get screwed in the game, just like younger men do.
I really think the people looking for "idealized" partner are the ones getting "screwed in the game." They are doing it to themselves because there aren't enough "ideal" mates going around for all the people who want them. A lot of people like that will just end up frustrated that they can't find the ideal they want.
Yet, that is the "idealized" woman your older man wants. Older
women get screwed in the game, just like younger men do.
By 46 one should realize that 46 year olds have lived and experienced half their life. Unless they have been in suspended animation they have had relationships, good and bad, and all the emotional scares that come with it, many have had children and haven't been all that kind to their bodies. They are looking for second chances. That doesn't mean they are not beautiful people or would not make a fantastic mate.
But Im sure there are people out there who don't accept the fact that life has done to them what it has to others their age.
A 20 yr. old sex slave model may be what they fantasize about but I think most older men realize its not going to happen and would probably get bored with it after awhile. Just like older women.
By 46 one should realize that 46 year olds have lived and experienced half their life. Unless they have been in suspended animation they have had relationships, good and bad, and all the emotional scares that come with it, many have had children and haven't been all that kind to their bodies. They are looking for second chances. That doesn't mean they are not beautiful people or would not make a fantastic mate.
But Im sure there are people out there who don't accept the fact that life has done to them what it has to others their age.
A 20 yr. old sex slave model may be what they fantasize about but I think most older men realize its not going to happen and would probably get bored with it after awhile. Just like older women.
Some people just have never had the opportunity to have a relationship. Just because you don't think it is normal doesn't make it abnormal.
Having a child on your own is tough work. If you work out of the home it's different, but raising a kid via a nanny, or sitters, isn't really having a kid. I'm sure a lot of single parents, as well as couple's with children will disagree, which is fine. But honestly, if you are at work for 8 hour a day, many times it's more. How much time are you actually spending with that child? How much of an influence do you have on that child, in the way he grows up? I hate to say, but it's very little. Between the time at work and sleeping, you are spending a significantly smaller amount of time with your kid than their teachers, sitters, or nanny.
If you must have a kid, adapt one, there are already too many people having kids for the wrong reasons, help society out, and take care of one of those.
Some people just have never had the opportunity to have a relationship. Just because you don't think it is normal doesn't make it abnormal.
Nothing to do with normal or abnormal. If you haven't had the opportunity to have a relationship by 46 just don't expect the majority to be in the same situation as yourself.
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