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I'd kick all of them out including your boyfriend. They all sound like lowlife freeloaders.
This ,, and being a lefty it would have to be pretty extreme before I would say that but in this case with everything you have written I totally agree with ss20ts
Your bf's son may make a check, but he doesn't budget his personal finances and spends his money on stuff he wants, but doesn't need. He doesn't seem to appreciate what you and your bf does and how hard you guys work to pay the bills and keep up with your place. Some have stressful jobs just to make ends meet and have to deal with a-holes at work just to get a check. The gf should also take an initiative and show appreciation as well. That could've been shown by cleaning up after yourselves, buying food or other items, etc. How about your bf's son buying you and your bf a bottle of wine instead of him just buying himself some booze and whatever he gets high off of?
If I stayed with someone, I would show appreciation. When I stayed with my parents, I paid for groceries, bought food, took parents (especially dad because he enjoyed eating out) out to eat, etc. I think your bf should have a talk with his son. Now if his son was fired or laid off, then I can see you guys letting him stay until he gets on his feet but even then he should clean up after himself and maybe do chores around the house to show appreciation. I feel its just common courtesy but maybe I'm too nice.
You are officially no longer a "boy" when you have a 29 year old son.
Whatever you want to call him, you have to decide if he is worth the trouble because I doubt he is going to change except that one day your boyfriend will likely be a grandpa....... if he's not already. I admit I didn't read carefully.
boogie'smom
Yes he is a grandfather. He have 2 sons. He have a 24 year old son that is married, more mature, have a full time job, and just had a baby daughter a month ago. I don't think his 29 year old son is ready to be a father at all.
[quote=Scooby Snacks;41460812]Incorrect. If she is a legal owner or tenant, she can file to evict one or the other in landlord/tenant court. I suggest OP do exactly that. OP, you can't just throw them out. You have to do this via legal means, and that takes time. But you can do it. I'm not going to bash the son for the position he's in. We can all get into a tight spot from time to time. Being an adult doesn't mean something bad can't happen to us financially, ascanyone who lived through the mortgage crisis of 2008 is well aware. However, it is the responsibility of people who seek help from parents or other family members to do everything they can to become fully self supporting ASAP, and not mooch off the kindness of their loved ones indefinitely.[/q
His son was not in a tight spot. He had a good job making $10 dollars an hour for 40 hours a week. $353 a month for rent for his apartment is nothing. He didn't pay his rent from April to July. I don't know what he did with his money and not paying rent. He is the one who make those bad choices and it got him evicted in July. I am paying $575 a month for rent and always on time.
Your bf's son may make a check, but he doesn't budget his personal finances and spends his money on stuff he wants, but doesn't need. He doesn't seem to appreciate what you and your bf does and how hard you guys work to pay the bills and keep up with your place. Some have stressful jobs just to make ends meet and have to deal with a-holes at work just to get a check. The gf should also take an initiative and show appreciation as well. That could've been shown by cleaning up after yourselves, buying food or other items, etc. How about your bf's son buying you and your bf a bottle of wine instead of him just buying himself some booze and whatever he gets high off of?
If I stayed with someone, I would show appreciation. When I stayed with my parents, I paid for groceries, bought food, took parents (especially dad because he enjoyed eating out) out to eat, etc. I think your bf should have a talk with his son. Now if his son was fired or laid off, then I can see you guys letting him stay until he gets on his feet but even then he should clean up after himself and maybe do chores around the house to show appreciation. I feel its just common courtesy but maybe I'm too nice.
No my boyfriend's son didn't show any appreciation. He said I was nagging too much about his lazy mess. I had to get on him to take the trash out. I boxed his stuffs last weekend. He is no longer welcome in my home.
So, now that you have boxed up his stuff, is the son OUT?
Is his father supporting you at this point? Is he helping you get the son and girlfriend out, or is he dragging his feet?
After this whole drama is over, will you and your boyfriend have a good relationship, or has it been ruined?
We aren't anti-man, we are anti-assclown. Just so happens in this case the POS is a male. There are plenty of threads where it's the daughter holding the house hostage and we tell those parents to kick the little princess out, too.
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