Do you invite kids to party just because your kid was invited to theirs? (activity, children)

[AnnaNomus]

I kind of feel obligated to return the invite to kids who invited my dd to their birthday party, even the ones she didn't attend. But, at the same time, I want her to invite who she wants there, especially since her chosen activity is not cheap so she's limited to only 8 guests. What is proper etiquette...inviting the children who invited your child, or not?

[Pitt Chick]

My kids invited those they are friends with and with whom they wanted to spend their day.

In these days of inviting everyone, I would feel no obligation of reciprocity.

Your guilt is no reason to have someone attend, when the birthday child would rather have someone else there to share the special occasion.

[veuvegirl]

Originally Posted by Pitt Chick

My kids invited those they are friends with and with whom they wanted to spend their day.

In these days of inviting everyone, I would feel no obligation of reciprocity.

Your guilt is no reason to have someone attend, when the birthday child would rather have someone else there to share the special occasion.

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[AnnaNomus]

Originally Posted by Pitt Chick

My kids invited those they are friends with and with whom they wanted to spend their day.

In these days of inviting everyone, I would feel no obligation of reciprocity.

Your guilt is no reason to have someone attend, when the birthday child would rather have someone else there to share the special occasion.

It's more of a question of politeness than guilt. But I see your point.

[UserName14289]

Originally Posted by AnnaNomus

I kind of feel obligated to return the invite to kids who invited my dd to their birthday party, even the ones she didn't attend. But, at the same time, I want her to invite who she wants there, especially since her chosen activity is not cheap so she's limited to only 8 guests. What is proper etiquette...inviting the children who invited your child, or not?

This is a great question. I wondered the same thing last year. I ultimately invited them, but haven't decided if I will again this year. I'm leaning towards 'no'. I have a few more weeks to decide.

[Tracy5305]

Since you have a limited number of guests to invite, I would let your child choose. If you were having a party at home where the number was less restricted, I would include the other friends. It never hurts to be generous, especially when it comes to a child.

[Marlow]

Originally Posted by Tracy5305

Since you have a limited number of guests to invite, I would let your child choose. If you were having a party at home where the number was less restricted, I would include the other friends. It never hurts to be generous, especially when it comes to a child.

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