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Old 06-24-2016, 09:29 AM
 
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It blows my mind why so many people choose it as a destination! Just read the terrible descriptions just in this post! My husband and I were so relieved when we offered to take our 4 and 6 year olds for spring break this year and they said they'd rather go to NYC, which they LOVED.
We took our 6/7 year olds last year but we didn't go for a week. We only had two days (we did something else with them before Disney and something else after) and the kids loved it. We went from 12-7 the first day and 10-5 the next day. They of course had their moments but that goes for any place you go on vacation with kids.
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Old 06-24-2016, 09:30 AM
 
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Well, the OP did NOT say they were going to Disney. She said they were planning a "Disney type vacation." So there's no need for any Disney hate here or Disney comparisons or anything to do with Disney, actually.

For what it's worth, I grew up and still live within spittin' distance of Disneyland and have been there many, many, many times. But not ever for more than one day at a time, and would never do so. Just not appealing to me at all. But I can also understand that while it's easy for me to take my kids to Disneyland, spend a few hours there and then go home, others travel long distances and want to make the most of their few days in the area. And I assume the same goes for any destination in which there are a variety of amusements.

But even so, four to five days of theme parks in a row, in the summer, with another family and kids in tow, would have me refusing to leave my hotel room by the morning of the third day--and I'm healthy and fit. It's kind of hard for me to believe that the 5 year old will be exhausted but everyone else will feel just great and raring to go. I think the whole idea is crazy, but if someone wants to do it and a stroller will make it the slightest bit easier, then they should absolutely take one.
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Old 06-24-2016, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Hillsborough
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I don't know - we had a good time at Disney. Maybe it's because I let my kids sit in the stroller! haha
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Old 06-24-2016, 09:38 AM
 
Location: Brew City
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We took our 6/7 year olds last year but we didn't go for a week. We only had two days (we did something else with them before Disney and something else after) and the kids loved it. We went from 12-7 the first day and 10-5 the next day. They of course had their moments but that goes for any place you go on vacation with kids.

Just the amount of planning and coordination required is enough to scare me off. Add in the crowds of crying kids and over exhausted parents mixed with the heat and humidity standing in line for hours and I'm just fine choosing almost anywhere else on earth. Oh, and the insane admission price plus lodging on-site with the feeling of needing to get one's money's worth because it may be a once in a lifetime trip.

This thread is an example of the stress a visit to DW/DL can cause. (No personal judgment OP, it just shows the amount of planning required!)

To each their own. I'm glad others can enjoy it.


But back to the point, piggyback rides are easier than carrying .
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Old 06-24-2016, 09:41 AM
 
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No, but I would like something that can easily be hauled on our trip.
They have those cloth sided fold up wagons. I've seen them at Sam's for about $50.
I think taking something like this would be handy, you could put snacks, picnic blanket, carry souvenirs whatever. Kids get tired, and cranky, you could pull wagon over in shade and all rest.
https://www.google.com/search?q=clot...hrome&ie=UTF-8
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Old 06-24-2016, 10:13 AM
 
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They have those cloth sided fold up wagons. I've seen them at Sam's for about $50.
I think taking something like this would be handy, you could put snacks, picnic blanket, carry souvenirs whatever. Kids get tired, and cranky, you could pull wagon over in shade and all rest.
https://www.google.com/search?q=clot...hrome&ie=UTF-8
Most of the wagons like that are not designed for hauling children. It may just be lawyer speak because they don't have seat belts, but ours has a pretty flimsy base. It's great for hauling stuff to the soccer field, but I don't think it would stand up to having the weight of larger children standing in it.
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Old 06-24-2016, 11:20 AM
 
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Her friend has a kid almost the same age and they're using a stroller. Apparently he's considerably bigger, so why doesn't she just ask them?

In asking what would we do the OP is courting opinions.
I did ask her and she said buy a stroller because it is way easier. But she also has the means to buy whatever she wants, without considering the cost. Her stroller is probably a $500 one if I know her.
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Old 06-24-2016, 11:24 AM
 
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Is the trip FOR his enjoyment? At least in part, I'm guessing? Then move at a pace that is reasonable for him...taking needed breaks. It sounds like you may be trying to get your "money's worth" by cramming in a lot, or at least more than you anticipate HE is able to handle. What is the point of that?
I hear you but I have a teenager also. I am always teetering between two vastly different age groups.
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Old 06-24-2016, 11:28 AM
 
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Then, personally, I would cross that bridge when I get there.

He might be absolutely fine. Especially if you show him you expect him to "be big." And, heck, most people need breaks at amusement parks--that's when we do meals, snacks, shows, just sitting in the shade for a while.

And if you decide he needs to ride for a bit, the you rent a stroller for a day to two. Less hassle, and likely less expense than buying one to lug on your trip.
I am on a limited budget and renting at $30 a day is outrageous to me. I bought one that will hopefully fit him for $57 plus tax.
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Old 06-24-2016, 11:30 AM
 
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I think for me the biggest concern is not the idea of a stroller (although I agree that most able bodied 5-6 year olds will walk just fine) but the lack of considering the need for some downtime. Yes, the teenager may want to keep moving - so let her and meet up later. The feeling that everyone must be constantly powering through, with no break is a lot to expect, and as others have mentioned not necessarily fun for everyone. Particularly a young child.
I do not let me teenager go off alone in crowds. She is a young teen.
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