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The OP can file a "trespass warning", which would stop all contact legally, but that seems a little aggressive given the lack of knowing what is being discussed.
Not aggressive enough IMO! Who cares what's being discussed? She's 40 & he's 16, it's not appropriate and there's NO way they have anything in common!
I'm so incredibly shocked at how many of you just don't think that this is a big deal because we're talking about a male child and an adult female. I genuinely can't believe that you would not have already called the cops on a 40 year old man who was manipulating a 16 year old girl into sneaking around behind her parents back.
Won't work if the age of consent is 16 in OP's state.
Who cares what the age of consent is. The 16 year old is a kid and living in his parents home. If he would like to make his own rules then he can see how it is living on his own.
I have no issue with the parent being involved, my issue is calling the police when you have no idea what they are even discussing, acting like she's some pedophile for simply enjoying playing video games..
I said clearly, trust, but verify, in my first response.. I've got some 18 year old, "talking" to my 14 year old daughter.. if you dont think I guard and watch that relationship, even discussions, you're kidding yourself..
but jumping to the conclusion that they are having inappropriate discussions is simply wrong..
So exactly what do you think a 40 year old woman and a 16 year old kid would be talking about then?
Anytime a kid at any age has to go behind a parents back to have a conversation then something is not right. Anything that a kid is saying to a friend better be something that can be said in front of the parents. No need to hide. Any 40 year adult should be able to understand this. An adult of any age that is having a conversation with a 16 year old or any other age kid that is concealed from the parents of that kid is doing something wrong and knows it.
Anytime a kid at any age has to go behind a parents back to have a conversation then something is not right. Anything that a kid is saying to a friend better be something that can be said in front of the parents. No need to hide. Any 40 year adult should be able to understand this. An adult of any age that is having a conversation with a 16 year old or any other age kid that is concealed from the parents of that kid is doing something wrong and knows it.
This is grooming 101.
Oh, c'mon! I don't think much of this relationship, especially with the secrecy. However, the bold is over the top. We all have a right to have private conversations.
Oh, c'mon! I don't think much of this relationship, especially with the secrecy. However, the bold is over the top. We all have a right to have private conversations.
Not between a 16 and a 40 year old! There's no reason why a 40 year old should be having long conversations with a 16 year old! NONE!
Not between a 16 and a 40 year old! There's no reason why a 40 year old should be having long conversations with a 16 year old! NONE!
Especially since they met while playing a video game online. It would still be weird if it was a friends mom or something with that age difference and the amount of time and hour of the day, but it being a random is even worse!
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