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Old 02-22-2017, 07:20 AM
 
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In Texas you have to be 16 to pump gas. I wouldn't be surprised if other states have similar laws.

I used to manage a gas station and I'd cut off the pump if a little kid was using it. The parent would storm in demanding to know why and I'd tell them about the law. When they were done spewing outrage, I'd point out that the kid was the right height to get gas in their eyes if they spilled it. If they still went on about it I'd tell them it was realty strange that I cared more about their child's safety than they did.
I couldn't find the age in my state when I did a quick Google search. I found Indiana and it's 14 there.

I wouldn't let a little kid either but would let a middle school aged kid (to me middle school is 7/8). I was buying and pumping gas when I was 13/14. The house we bought when I was 12 came with a scooter. A tank of gas for it cost me .25 cents.
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:23 AM
 
Location: Crook County, Hellinois
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In Texas you have to be 16 to pump gas. I wouldn't be surprised if other states have similar laws.
In Illinois, it's the same as the driver license age. So it's 16, or 15 with a learner's permit.
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Old 02-22-2017, 08:46 AM
 
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I used to take kids classes. My nephew is 4 and really into cooking so I got him a lot of kid cooking supplies and I went to thriftbooks and bought a bunch of kids cookbooks for next to nothing. Imo, starting with things they like is the best way to go. Try a pizza station. Have them prep ingredients, line them up and create the best pie.
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Old 02-24-2017, 06:32 AM
 
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When I was 12 I cooked my first, full, entire holiday meal. Including cleaning the turkey, taking it out of the oven and doing all the sides. So I am pretty sure by 10 I had several things I could cook. I honestly, don't remember being dependent on my mother for meals at that age. I mean, it might have been simple, but I am sure I could cook several things.

My kids are 10 and 11 and cant hardly cook a thing. SO far they can:
Warm up chicken nuggets in the microwave
Make microwave popcorn
toast

That is it...at least that I can think of.

My son (11) can make a cake from a mix (or brownies) without help but wants me to take it out of the oven. He enjoys reading the directions and doing it himself.

When I try to get them involved in cooking, they are afraid of burning themselves or cutting themselves. Part of it is I think I do worry about them and it passes it on to them. They also saw me cut my self very badly when they were early elementary age and it changed how they acted around the kitchen for a long time (I was ok, just tons of blood and a couple dozen stitches)

So I was thinking of ideas of how to help them become more independent in the kitchen and things a kid 10-11 y "should" be able to prepare.
Almost anything in a box, like mac n cheese.

One pan items like, scrambled egg or tacos.

My kids by the time they were 10 were assigned a night of the week that they were responsible for the meal. There were only two rules, you must include a vegetable and the cook doesn't clean. But you have to let them be responsible. If they want fish sticks and mac n cheese every Tuesday, so be it.

Nobody gets over fear through avoidance. Burns and cuts heal. These are important life lessons that cooking can teach them.
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Old 02-24-2017, 04:36 PM
 
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What about having them watch some of the Tasty Junior recipes on YouTube. They are more kid friendly recipes and maybe seeing little kids make some of the stuff will give them more confidence in their ability to cook.

https://www.facebook.com/tastyjunior/


I started off cooking by making desserts when I was about 6. My mom would do any chopping or peeling if needed and also take the food in and out of the oven. But I would do all the mixing, measuring, and pouring. So maybe have them start with helping you in the kitchen, and slowly give them more responsibility.
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Old 02-24-2017, 04:45 PM
 
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Nobody gets over fear through avoidance. Burns and cuts heal. These are important life lessons that cooking can teach them.
Yeah, they're most likely going to get burn and cuts. It happens, even to professional chefs. Its better for the kids to learn how to best avoid accidents in the kitchen, and how to deal with them when it does happen. My mom never made a big deal about accidents happening in the kitchen as long as I was trying to be safe. However, she did keep a first aid kit in the kitchen, so when I accidently cut myself, it could be taken care of quickly. Then I went back to doing whatever I was doing before I got hurt.
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Old 02-24-2017, 05:46 PM
 
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My sister just watched my two grandchildren for 3 days while they were out of school. Grandchildren are 11 and 9.

The kids cooked using the recipes while my sister observed. Day 1 was cinnamon rolls which were taken home to momma, day 2 was making pillow cases on the sewing machine, day 3 was crepes.

The kids are self sufficient and willing to work. They helped sister plant daffodils etc the last school break. So I think it is doable that kids that age can cook meals. With observation
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