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You are a child who deserves to be protected. Any adult at school who you talk to is a Mandatory Reporter. Even I, as a school volunteer, am one. It is not your job to figure things out. There are trained people to help and protect you.
Tell your school counselor and she will tell the principal and from there, they will know how to get help.
By helping yourself, you will be helping your siblings too. Be the hero, for them and for yourself.
how is your mom's relationship with your little sister? Is it just as bad? you are worried about running other peoples life but are the other people in good place now
It's pretty typical for abusive parents to isolate you, make you feel unable to report their actions and unable to look for help because of the possible consequences. You don't have to suffer through the abuse to protect anyone, that's her way of shutting you up and making you afraid to tell.
Don't be surprised if she lies to the authorities and makes it sound like you're out of control and promiscuous and she's doing her absolute best as a single mom with several kids to make you behave. They're great at playing the victim. If you could record audio or video of the physical abuse, it would make it more difficult for her to lie her way out of it.
Talk to the counselor at school. You need an adult on your side. None of the adults in your family are protecting you from your abuser.
and it's true, in 2 years you can move out, but your sister will be there to take your place. Your mom isn't going to stop abusing her children without some sort of major intervention. What you do now will protect your sister from having the same things done to her.
You need help, if all the above you mentioned has actually occurred. Guidance counselor at school. Start there. He or she will guide you and take the necessary next steps
thankyou sol much ,I understand you fully but I don't know if to leave it like this so my mom could get over or say something ,I just honestly don't want to make things worse especially since I can get charged with something too which isn't so big but not small either
Please don't take on your mother's (and the other adults in your life) problems as your own. It's not like they ever consulted with you, when they were making their decisions to beat you, not pay child support, etc.
You need to take charge here sweetie. You need to, for your emotional as well as physical well-being.
Please don't take on your mother's (and the other adults in your life) problems as your own. It's not like they ever consulted with you, when they were making their decisions to beat you, not pay child support, etc.
You need to take charge here sweetie. You need to, for your emotional as well as physical well-being.
My only issue with your post is, OP does not need to take charge. Responsible adults need to take charge.
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