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I agree, redplum33. Truly, I cannot believe she has not told him. I believe she should have told her son the minute she learned that a person, i.e., his girlfriend, was deceiving him. I don't get it. I would not withhold that information from my son or anyone I love or care for.
The son is being deceived by his GF and his mother. What am I missing here?
I 1000% agree with this. I could not have sat on this for that amount of time.
I'm not a parent or a relationships expert, and I really don't know how to handle this, but I agree with the person that said not to text Rachelle. I'm not even sure it's a good idea to have a conversation with Rachelle.
If your son later finds out you withheld this info, he's going to be upset. But I'm still not convinced you should get involved.
Is there some way that you can get Tracey to have a little discussion with Rachelle?
If you are so sure he’s not like that, why are you so afraid to tell him? Do you trust the information Tracy gave you? Are you worried he won’t believe you?
Like I said its because of the way he is. Hes very high charged and this would drive him nuts. I wanna just talk to her in person.
WS67, I'm glad you accepted the suggestion to not text anything.
Just one comment, I've become very confused who is who in this discussion. I'm not even sure who you intend to talk to.
I'm aware of the "known for 4 months" thing being a problem, but I think the only person you have a real connection and duty to is your son. In other words keep it in the family.
If I were your son I'd rather hear the news from my mom. At least I'd know I was hearing the news from a person who I trust and love. If your son truly loves you then the 4 month thing should be no big deal compared to hearing it from anybody else, and your son will be mad if you told somebody else but not him. To me that trumps being mad about your having known this a while. If you discuss this with somebody else you cut him out of the loop. If my mom did this I would feel like she was meddling in my relationships. If she told me directly at least I would know she was doing it for my best interests.
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